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Who are you missing right now?

First person i thought of was Tinky
and no disrespect or any less love to Borris and Tibby

i also miss one of the little kittens who have taken up residence in the wash house - i hasn't seen her from when i was sick from vertigo
But i found what was left off her - i think she got run over
Its amazing how something so tiny and timid takes over your heart

It is amazing how they take over our hearts and are in our very souls. I am very sorry for your losses Daisy. My heart goes out to you and sending gentle hugs your way. You are a good fur baby mommy. Your furry babies adore and cherish you and maybe one day we will be reunited with them. I hope so.
 
I miss my grandmother.
This photo was taken in the 1980s. She died in 2012, at age 92.
She was a huge presence. I always remember Sunday dinner at her house. She would invite everyone and we would have to eat in shifts, because her kitchen was so small. There was so much food on the table, that there was barely enough room for the dinner plates.
She gave me those plates and I have them displayed in my kitchen.
She taught us all to cook Syrian food.
She would be happy to know that I always think of her when I am cooking!
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What a beautiful strong woman and I know how proud she was of you and would be still if she was here with us. And it is wonderful you have her in your heart with you always and that you think of her every time you cook. What a gift she gave you and with which you continue to honor her memory. Thank you for sharing this incredible woman with us @stracci2000. Grandmothers are very special people. And your grandmother's memory lives on in you and all her loved ones. You do her proud. Hugs.
 
My mother. She only lives 4 miles away, but we have been under local lockdown restrictions for 3 weeks now, which are set to get more severe next week. We currently cannot visit anybody's homes or gardens, or socialise in restaurants or pubs with people we don't live with. Back to dropping her food shopping on her doorstep & stepping back to the edge of her lawn for shouted conversation. It's her 76th Birthday next Tuesday & she will spend it alone. She has mostly been alone since March 10th. It breaks my heart, but we have to keep her & her poorly heart safe.

@Alex T I am sorry you are missing your mother and that she is alone. Happy birthday next week and I know you continue to let her know how much she is loved despite the pandemic keeping you apart. You are keeping her safe and well and that is the best gift you can give her right now. I know talking via the computer/via internet/via phone and zoom and FT isn't the same thing but one day you will see her again. This won't be forever. And in the meantime you continue to do what is best for your mom by keeping her safe. That is true love. The selfless action that is above all else right now. True love indeed. Doing what is best despite your need to see your mom and hug her IRL. Hugs to you Alex my sweet friend. XO.
 
We lost our mini Doxie, Maxx this summer. I really didn't think it would hit me as hard as it did. He was just short of 16 and not doing very well. It was very sad. We were at a campground and let him walk on the grass next to our 5th wheel. Our other doxie was on a tether staked in the ground and he walked in her path and the leash took him out. He was in such pain. He could barely walk as it was and we just set him down for a minute thinking he would like to walk a bit on the grass. It all happened so fast. I will miss him forever, he was the best boy.

I really miss my friends. I have been in a bunco group for 30 years. These 11 women are my closest friends in the world. We haven't gotten together since March. There have been all kinds of things going on in our families-one of them is taking care of her husband who was diagnosed with stage for colon/rectal cancer that has spread to his lungs and liver. I want to see them and hug them in the worst way. Some days life just plugs along and other days I just want to scream for all of this to be over.

I want to scream for all this to be over too. I feel you @luv2sparkle and my heart goes out to you. I am sorry about Maxx. So hard to bear losing ou beloved furry babies. I am so sorry.
You will see your friends again. I am sorry for all they are going through too. Covid isn't happening in a vacuum and unfortunately there are other real life health challenges happening that don't stop for the pandemic. Insult upon injury. Sending you good thoughts and gentle hugs and looking forward to a pandemic free time in the (I hope) near future. Hugs.
 
I still miss my Gran (Mums mother) she understood my love of Bling and used to let me play in her Jewellery box. She would also collect the coloured foils from chocolates for me. My first “bling” collection. She gifted me my great great grandmother gold heart and chain on my 21st which I cherish more than anything. Only two pieces made it through to descendants, the other was the Ruby ring (which everyone fought over) but actually had paste Rubies in it. It seems that great Uncle William with a very bad gambling habit got to it as well! The gold heart was worn by my great Grand mother and never taken off so it wasn’t “stolen and sold” to fund his gambling.
And my Heart Dog, Zoomie.
Zoomie was a retired (rescue) racing greyhound. He had been a champion racing dog but retired due to injury. He was huge (43kgs) and fast, very fast. He was so gentle and kind, I used him as a therapy dog to visit the local Nursing homes. Everyone loved him. He appeared in commercials, charity events, was on TV and was the “poster boy” for changing the Muzzling laws here in NSW, Australia (previously even pet greyhounds had to always muzzled when in public because of the mistaken perception that they would chase and kill anything that moved! ) So wrong. It’s a Saluki who wants to do that! 1BFF7F43-9E7D-4DB5-8AA0-EC48929CE233.jpegBE728EE7-8358-4C60-9226-4BF0E386E704.jpegAC71EF29-05DD-4690-8818-F697F5CEAB23.jpeg56E481E0-4B6B-48FC-82A4-935AA10DFCE5.jpeg34FFBB48-EA1C-4AFE-AC79-4D14266A2895.jpeg Sadly he got bone cancer and after unsuccessful treatment we had to send him over the rainbow bridge.

I am so sorry for your losses @Bron357. :(
For your grandmother and all your furry babies including your heart dog. There truly are no words to make it better. Hugs to you.
 
I miss my son, who we moved to UCSD 2 weeks ago. I also miss my parents In Taiwan who usually come stay with us in California for 3 months during the summer.

I am sorry @jaysonsmom and hope your son comes home for holiday soon and that he keeps in touch with you however he can. And also I am sorry you cannot see your parents right now. Such tough times. (((Hugs))).
 
I miss my sweet Dakota, who passed away 2 months ago. She had some kind of episode on a Friday and the vet said she’d be fine. Unfortunately, by Monday morning, she took a drastic turn for the worse and we had to make the extremely painful decision to let her go. I can’t even express how much I miss her. ;( Everything feels different now. Feeding 3 dogs instead of 4, kissing 3 dogs goodnight instead of 4. I still find myself holding open the door, expecting her to walk in after the others. And the silence! I never knew just how loud she was (with all the delightful snorts and snores) until she was gone...:(sad


Aww Elle, I remember your IG post. My heart goes out to you. What a sweet sweet baby. I am so sorry for your loss. :(
Sending gentle hugs your way.
 
I miss my best friend who lives in QLD so I’ve not been allowed over the border to visit her in months. Also my beloved dog who is living her best pampered life with my parents as I’m in a flat (landlord won’t allow pets!) but I miss her very much...

I'm sorry you cannot see your best friends or your beloved sweet dog. I am glad she is being pampered and living a good life with your parents though and hope soon she will be back with you or that you can visit her and shower her with love and adoration. And that you can also be reunited with your dear friend too.
 
This is the best dog that ever existed and he could talk. His big ticket phrases being, Hi, I love you, and I'm hungry. He used to surprise people with the casual walk by Hi! when they'd first meet him. There was a lot of, "Did your dog say hi to me just now?!" He could also grumble say no, no, no. He would also bark Mum, mum! when he wanted me to let him in or my attention. That bark was only for me.
He was famous for escaping to go on the circuit to visit the neighbors and their kids/dogs. He was beloved by all. He knew how gently to play depending on who he was playing with. He was never rough. He would pull the kids on their sled in the yard. He watched over them. He was a hugger. He was a smiler. He taught our other puppy Leeloo everything she needed to know, how to be. We just let him. He did most of the work for us. How he loved her.
We were with him when he went suddenly at the age of ten after a great day. Too early. It's been two years and I can barely get this out without breaking down. His ears smelled like cinnamon. There is so much more that he was, that he did. How could he have been just some dog? He was everything to me. He was mine. His name was Virgil.
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To say that I miss him doesn't begin to cover it.

I am so sorry. And I get it. No one can really truly understand unless they have lost their heart baby. I am so very sorry and my heart goes out to you. No words can take away the pain and all we can take comfort in is that we did all we could for them to give them the best possible life we could while we were here. Hugs to you sweet @ItsMainelyYou.
 
I miss both my grandmothers. I dream of them and one of my grandfathers often. Isnt it funny that grandmothers cooking and teaching us to cook crosses cultures, heritage and religions.

I'm sorry @caf . Grandmothers are very special people. I am glad you have so much to remember and honor her by. It is a lovely gift she left you and one no one can ever take away from you.
 
My best friend who passed away 11 months ago - 9 weeks after finding out she had cancer...

My grandparents.... beautiful people... 93 & 99... a true love story.

My staffy who passed away after 14.5 years.

All of them loved me unconditionally. Very blessed
 
My best friend who passed away 11 months ago - 9 weeks after finding out she had cancer...

My grandparents.... beautiful people... 93 & 99... a true love story.

My staffy who passed away after 14.5 years.

All of them loved me unconditionally. Very blessed

I am so sorry for all your losses. :(
You are very fortunate to have had (and I am sure you still have) so much unconditional love in your life.
(((Hugs))).
 
It is amazing how they take over our hearts and are in our very souls. I am very sorry for your losses Daisy. My heart goes out to you and sending gentle hugs your way. You are a good fur baby mommy. Your furry babies adore and cherish you and maybe one day we will be reunited with them. I hope so.

Thank you Missy
i have the stray kittens talking to me now and rolling on their backs showing me their tummies and the little long haired girl says hello with her tail but i have to get them friendlier so the spca will rehome them
 
I am so sorry for all your losses. :(
You are very fortunate to have had (and I am sure you still have) so much unconditional love in your life.
(((Hugs))).

Thank you I do. However it never makes up for the “holes” they left x
 
Thank you Missy
i have the stray kittens talking to me now and rolling on their backs showing me their tummies and the little long haired girl says hello with her tail but i have to get them friendlier so the spca will rehome them

It fills my heart with joy when I see the ferals doing well and eating and happily plump and playing around our yard. I am anxious about the coming months and how they will fare but we do what we can and hope for the best. They really are something the ferals. :kiss2:
 
Thank you I do. However it never makes up for the “holes” they left x

You are right. The pieces of our broken hearts are always un-mended in that way. My heart hurts so still with all the losses we have endured. Somehow we go on and continue to love others but always missing the ones who are gone. Always. :(
 
Dear @Made in London I am very sorry for your losses. Beautiful babies all of them and I know they were your very soul and your everything. With each loss it doesn't get easier to bear. Sometimes I wonder how our hearts survive at all. I hope you can take comfort in all the love and care you gave them and all you shared together with them. Hugs to you.
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Thank you Missy for your comforting & very kind words.(((((hugs)))))
 
Thank you Missy
i have the stray kittens talking to me now and rolling on their backs showing me their tummies and the little long haired girl says hello with her tail but i have to get them friendlier so the spca will rehome them

Daisy I took this video just now for you. Gracie is watching the ferals. Lol.



Pictured in the video are Samson, Fresca and Smoky. ❤❤❤
And of course Gracie Frances. ❤️
You can see all are well fed. :)
 
Miss DS and future DIL who we haven’t seen since 29th December 2019. We regularly FaceTime, but it’s not the same as being together.

Miss our beautiful Dottie who died last September, it was so quick and so horrible, diagnosed with arthritis on the Monday, and gone on Thursday from an aggressive bone tumour on her left shoulder :cry: Miss not taking her out everyday and meeting other doggie friends and just being outside. Miss her funny ways, moaning to be fed at 4.30pm everyday, even though she knew dinner time was 5pm. Miss how she’d take herself off to bed at 9pm and sit and wait for her bedtime biscuit then settle herself down till morning. She’d wait patiently till we came down, then rush to her bowl for breakfast, then settle down on her bed till it was time for her walk.

We’ve been fortunate that after 10 weeks in lockdown from March, we were able to meet up outside with a friend, then after that, able to meeting friends outside so could sit in the garden to chat. We’ve also met friends for lunch and sat outside restaurants. We’re able to go to friends houses for a meal, and so far in our area, there‘ve been no further lockdowns.
 
Dear Sharon, my heart goes out to you. I get it. I too am feeling anxious and stressed. Missing one's family for not a short time either. For us, it is another TG we are missing as last year was RW hell if you recall. Sending you warm hugs across the miles and looking forward to happier Thanksgivings where we can all be with our loved ones again. Safely. (((Hugs))).

Thank you Missy. Yes, who could forget RW hell--it took you away from your family in order to heal. And now this. We are all feeling this situation keenly and how it is taking a toll on everything in our lives. Missing our families is painful.:(( but you are right; we have hope to see them soon and safely.
 
My son and his/our beloved bulldog. As my son is/was an only child, his bulldog was like a brother to him. They’re both my kids. My son was taken from us mere hours before what would’ve been his 23rd birthday while our bulldog left a week before what would‘ve been his 13th. Most bulldogs have a short life span but ours hung on to comfort us. I truly believe this.
I miss them both SO SO very much! Beyond words...Every. Single. Day.
 
My son and his/our beloved bulldog. As my son is/was an only child, his bulldog was like a brother to him. They’re both my kids. My son was taken from us mere hours before what would’ve been his 23rd birthday while our bulldog left a week before what would‘ve been his 13th. Most bulldogs have a short life span but ours hung on to comfort us. I truly believe this.
I miss them both SO SO very much! Beyond words...Every. Single. Day.

Hugs to you. I am so sorry for your loss - please keep the faith and I pray that you have better days ahead. Take care, thoughts and prayers to you.
 
Hugs to you. I am so sorry for your loss - please keep the faith and I pray that you have better days ahead. Take care, thoughts and prayers to you.

Thank you for the kind words, Queenie. As you may already know from my previous posts, he left 7 years ago...but there are wounds that run so deep that even time can’t heal. Time and everything else becomes immaterial when you lose your sense of purpose.
 
My son and his/our beloved bulldog. As my son is/was an only child, his bulldog was like a brother to him. They’re both my kids. My son was taken from us mere hours before what would’ve been his 23rd birthday while our bulldog left a week before what would‘ve been his 13th. Most bulldogs have a short life span but ours hung on to comfort us. I truly believe this.
I miss them both SO SO very much! Beyond words...Every. Single. Day.

Dear @maita13 my heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry :(
 
I miss my dog. A few days ago it was 5 months since she died and I have cried every one of those days. There are still many places I cannot stand to go because my memories of her are too strong there. I will (hopefully) be bringing home a puppy in January, but I'm worried I won't ever love any animal as much as I loved my sweet dog.

I also miss my family. They are all in other countries and we do not feel safe travelling to see each other right now.

And I miss one of my horses - who is alive and well! - pretty much any time I leave the barn. I have finally come to terms with not seeing my retired horse every day and I know he's so happy, but I wish this new horse could come live at my house :) Our partnership is getting stronger every day and it seems crazy that I can't see him whenever I want! Unfortunately, I live in a city and he would probably not be thrilled about sleeping in my dining room.
 
Thank you for the kind words, Queenie. As you may already know from my previous posts, he left 7 years ago...but there are wounds that run so deep that even time can’t heal. Time and everything else becomes immaterial when you lose your sense of purpose.

I am a mother too and could not imagine loosing one of my children. I understand from others that it is a heart wrenching pain that you will never get over. It leaves a deep hole in your heart and gut. I am sorry for your pain and loss.
 
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