I have started looking for engagement rings for about a week now and I am so confused on who to
trust. I read the Fred Cueller book which offered some good advice but also left me paranoid about buying the diamond with the best proportions. His service has provided me with a gemologist who has already offered to get me on a waiting list to have my diamond cut. They call it a min list meaning that they gurantee a minimum clarity and color grade but usually, I am told, produce a higher clarity and color but with the same initial price. Also they have informed me the stone will be bonded. Is this really necessary when insurance might cover more? Has anyone heard of the min list? Lastly does anyone know of an honest, reputable jeweler in northern VA. I feel like I should just bite the bullet and get a Tiffany and CO ring. Any advice would greatly be appreciated.