klavigne
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Feb 21, 2006
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So here''s my story:
I''ve been dating my girlfriend for almost two years. So I''m really happy and know she is the one for me. So I started to shop around before Christmas in hopes of asking her to marry me some time in early spring. Well, I got the ring and the plans were rolling along pretty smoothly. Until last night! My girlfriends brother just asked his GF to get married. They''ve been together for almost 8 years and he picks now to "pop" the question. So now I''m kind of torn. Do I follow through with my plans and risk offending anyone or do I hold off. And if I hold off how long should I wait. My GF absolutely loves her brothers gf and I wouldn''t want to "steal her thunder" so to speak. I''d hate for them to think I''m doing this just to jump on the band wagon. I talked to her father about my plans before any of this happened so at least he knows that I had this all planned before. I just don''t know what to do at this point. So what is the standard etiquette?
I''ve been dating my girlfriend for almost two years. So I''m really happy and know she is the one for me. So I started to shop around before Christmas in hopes of asking her to marry me some time in early spring. Well, I got the ring and the plans were rolling along pretty smoothly. Until last night! My girlfriends brother just asked his GF to get married. They''ve been together for almost 8 years and he picks now to "pop" the question. So now I''m kind of torn. Do I follow through with my plans and risk offending anyone or do I hold off. And if I hold off how long should I wait. My GF absolutely loves her brothers gf and I wouldn''t want to "steal her thunder" so to speak. I''d hate for them to think I''m doing this just to jump on the band wagon. I talked to her father about my plans before any of this happened so at least he knows that I had this all planned before. I just don''t know what to do at this point. So what is the standard etiquette?