Hey All,
Some of you may know about my hard time with SO, I had a thread where I just needed to vent and ask for some advice/thoughts/opinions ... which I received and am sane today because of it haha
Well I have one more thing I would love your thoughts/views/opinions on
P.S. not necessarily pertaining to me, but I have a feeling it will so I was just curious for the future and how to deal.
I was just thinking about how many of us, thought they would get engaged at a certain time and then it didn''t happen, and then were told it would be a few weeks later, or months or even years.
I was just thinking. If you were about to get engaged and then he suddenly tells you that it wont be now but more closer to 1-1.5 years from now ... how would you see that??
I understand that certain things come up (finances, family, jobs etc) and have to move it back 2-5 months, but to move back the engagement 1.5 years seems a bit excessive to me. It just makes me wonder that there is more to it then just a "timing" issue or financial issue.
Any thoughts???? How do you guys see it???
Some of you may know about my hard time with SO, I had a thread where I just needed to vent and ask for some advice/thoughts/opinions ... which I received and am sane today because of it haha
Well I have one more thing I would love your thoughts/views/opinions on
P.S. not necessarily pertaining to me, but I have a feeling it will so I was just curious for the future and how to deal.
I was just thinking about how many of us, thought they would get engaged at a certain time and then it didn''t happen, and then were told it would be a few weeks later, or months or even years.
I was just thinking. If you were about to get engaged and then he suddenly tells you that it wont be now but more closer to 1-1.5 years from now ... how would you see that??
I understand that certain things come up (finances, family, jobs etc) and have to move it back 2-5 months, but to move back the engagement 1.5 years seems a bit excessive to me. It just makes me wonder that there is more to it then just a "timing" issue or financial issue.
Any thoughts???? How do you guys see it???