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Post by missy » 09 Jun 2008 10:03
Hi everyone,
I am new to this forum and am impressed by all the knowledgeable and helpful people here.
I am currently in the middle of a small dilemma and I am unsure as to what to do.
I have a shared prong platinum eternity wedding band (10 point stones all around).
My first engagment ring setting (I am now on my second and going to a third) was platinum and a solitaire in style.
BTW I am not sure if I am using the terms correctly so I apologise in advance. I really don''t know too much about this and I am trying to educate myself. Anyway, the engagment diamond was just too low in the first setting so after about 2 years we changed it based on the recommendation of my mom''s friend who is a jeweler. She insisted that 18K white gold was the way to go and I let her (foolishly, my fault 100%) pick the setting. So my second engagement ring setting (and the one I have now) is 18 K white gold with 2 begets surrounding the main stone. My diamond is a 2.93 carat G, VS2. So I have lived with this setting for about 2 years and I do not care for it. It is just not my style with the begets and all.
Now I am determined to make this 3rd setting my last one and I have been doing lots of reading and I have finally decided what I want and that is a shared prong eternity engagment ring setting in Platinum to match my wedding ring. There is 1 major problem though and sorry this post is so long. My fingers change size quite a bit as I have Raynaud''s and other issues. In the heat it can be pretty bad but my major worry is over the years that my fingers will increas in width making it impossible to resize my ring(s) which will be diamonds all around just like my wedding band.
My e ring is size 5.75 and too tight. My w ring is 6 and a bit tight but what the new jeweler determined to be my current ring size. I am concerned if I order the new e ring setting and my fingers continue this upward spiral (inevitable I am afraid based on the last few years history) I will be stuck redoing my ring(s) again. I have read about sizing beads on this forum and wanted to know if anyone had any thoughts about that. Is that a good idea, is it possible and are there any other alternatives? I was thinkin gof ordering a 6.25 full or 6.5 and putting in sizing beads (if it can even be done) and taking it from there. It is my understanding that you cannot resize an eternity band very much at all. maybe .25-.5 max if even that so I really need some ideas!
Thanks so much for reading all of this and sorry if it is a bit confusing. I am driving my poor husband mad with all of this and I really would appreciate some input. We are doing the redo of my e ring for my bday present in August and I so want it to last!
Thanks again everyone and best wishes,
Missy
PS I just love your forum it is so great! Especially all the beautiful rings that everyone has. I loved the thread where everyone showed all their rings. Breathtaking!!
kenny|1395864961|3641855 said:One or two times in my life I have seen a diamond that blinded me from across the restaurant.
These were not large stones but they seemed to have built in batteries or nuclear reactors.
I want one of these magical super diamonds.
I want the best of the best.
missy|1395867030|3641883 said:Dee Jay, your first post/thread was quite intelligent. Very impressive! You didn't seem as much as a newbie as some of us (me that is lol).
Dee*Jay|1395867407|3641887 said:missy|1395867030|3641883 said:Dee Jay, your first post/thread was quite intelligent. Very impressive! You didn't seem as much as a newbie as some of us (me that is lol).
LOL Missy, you are giving me FAR too much credit!
And it's funny; reading that post (and the whole thread) brought back that feeling of total panic! OMG -- did I just make a hugely expensive mistake?!? Then of course I spent another small fortune upgrading THAT stone and plunking it into the Kelege setting...
AprilBaby|1395865110|3641856 said:I looked back to my post, two pages long and DeeJay and Motown Momma are the only two posters who replied that are still posting!
Dancing Fire|1395893797|3642117 said:https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/need-your-advice-is-it-worth-it-to-re-cut-a-stone-to-an-8.14364/#post-13238#p13238
missy|1395865567|3641861 said:Haha, my first posts were so stupid lol. I signed my posts too. Who does that?
AGBF|1395924566|3642225 said:missy|1395865567|3641861 said:Haha, my first posts were so stupid lol. I signed my posts too. Who does that?
Do you mean you're not supposed to?
Deb/AGBF
missy|1395926053|3642236 said:AGBF|1395924566|3642225 said:missy|1395865567|3641861 said:Haha, my first posts were so stupid lol. I signed my posts too. Who does that?
Do you mean you're not supposed to?
Lol deb not at all. Sorry for my use of poor wording. What I mean is the way I did it...by signing the post best, missy. Just seems funny to me now. Like I was writing a letter.
AGBF|1395932476|3642281 said:missy|1395926053|3642236 said:AGBF|1395924566|3642225 said:missy|1395865567|3641861 said:Haha, my first posts were so stupid lol. I signed my posts too. Who does that?
Do you mean you're not supposed to?
Lol deb not at all. Sorry for my use of poor wording. What I mean is the way I did it...by signing the post best, missy. Just seems funny to me now. Like I was writing a letter.
I was just teasing. Love ya.
Deb