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The picture and video are just to small to really get a good look at the Opal. I want to say Welo Opal, but could be Aussie. Really hard to see. If you could make a bigger video focusing on the stone that would help greatly.
My father passed in June and she was asking if I wanted to buy one of the pieces he designed
Sorry to hear about your father...and sorry that you have to buy a memento...
Sorry to hear about your father...and sorry that you have to buy a memento...
Yes. I noticed that you were asked to buy, too. I anticipate this will be in my future. So sorry.
Death brings out the worst in people at times!
I hope the OP can find a piece from your late father's collection to cherish.
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That's not a Welo. I'd say Australian, looks semi dark (totally making a guess off looking at many online) Coober Pedy?
I'm glad you're here and that you can help your stepmom.
Thank you for the condolences, truly
It was lost on me how odd this might sound, to buy a piece of jewelry that my father designed…my relationship with my father was complicated to say the very least. He was an abusive, narcissistic, alcoholic who (not to be dramatic) destroyed parts of our lives. He knowingly left my stepmom in financial ruins and so I don’t blame her for needing to sell some of the more expensive pieces so she can afford to pay off debt. I truly hold no ill will and my husband and I are in a position to help make that possible. My father never educated me in the jewelry trade or shared his knowledge, even though I wanted to, because he said a woman wouldn’t take over the family business. I’m so glad I found this community because I get to be a part of jewelry in all forms! It may sound weird but owning a piece my late father’s jewelry would mean having something I was never really allowed to be a part of growing up. She did give me some lovely stones…a large Maxixe beryl, imperial topaz, and a star ruby to name a few. I plan to make something special, to me, with a few of the stones!
I know this is an over share of information and may sound like a bizarre family dynamic but it’s my experience![]()
I am so very sorry to hear that your relationship with your father wasn’t a positive one. Your stepmom sounds like a good person and I hope you all can move forward in life and leave the yucky stuff in the past.
I know nothing about opals but I’m sure someone here can assist.
He knowingly left my stepmom in financial ruins and so I don’t blame her for needing to sell some of the more expensive pieces so she can afford to pay off debt.
Thank you for the condolences, truly
It was lost on me how odd this might sound, to buy a piece of jewelry that my father designed…my relationship with my father was complicated to say the very least. He was an abusive, narcissistic, alcoholic who (not to be dramatic) destroyed parts of our lives. He knowingly left my stepmom in financial ruins and so I don’t blame her for needing to sell some of the more expensive pieces so she can afford to pay off debt. I truly hold no ill will and my husband and I are in a position to help make that possible. My father never educated me in the jewelry trade or shared his knowledge, even though I wanted to, because he said a woman wouldn’t take over the family business. I’m so glad I found this community because I get to be a part of jewelry in all forms! It may sound weird but owning a piece my late father’s jewelry would mean having something I was never really allowed to be a part of growing up. She did give me some lovely stones…a large Maxixe beryl, imperial topaz, and a star ruby to name a few. I plan to make something special, to me, with a few of the stones!
I know this is an over share of information and may sound like a bizarre family dynamic but it’s my experience![]()
I will say this, my love of jewelry and all things gemstones did come from my childhood. I got to see beautiful and extraordinary jewelry and meet a lot of interesting people and clients. Now I get to converse with all you fine folks![]()
I'm sorry. I think my response above is what my wife would (correctly) identify as "classist" -- in that I am assuming that everyone has the resources to pass down a valuable piece of jewelry purely for sentimental reasons and without regard for what it is "worth," intrinsically. I'm glad you understand the situation better than I do. That makes sense -- and is equally sad in an entirely different way.
Thank you for sharing. It makes perfect sense. We are authentic here, and I love that you can be open and honest. That’s how I feel about PS too.
you are with friends here
i hope your step mum will be ok
Is it a solid Opal? Meaning, is it 100% crystal all the way through or does the back of the stone have a gray potch/back? Meaning, a gray back where no color shows through.
Thank you, both. I never intended this post to get this deep but I appreciate the kindness shown by everyone. It’s been nice to share and to be vulnerable while being met with compassion <B This community is something special!
group hug time
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G'day @jaqjaqjaq
First of all; I'm really sorry to hear about your dad.
It's a bit hard to tell from the photo and video, but can you see the back of the stone at all and see signs of it being natural? If so then I'd lean towards it being a Lightning Ridge or Mintabie stone, the body tone is quite dark which is characteristic of those locations and while Coober Pedy can have darker body tone stones they don't typically have colour that nice.
Hope this helps!
Some Crystal Opal with grey underneath,But these two samples no grey underneath,I don't like gray underground, so I didn't collect samples with gray undergroundThese are awesome! Are the sort of a grey underneath? I love the chunkiness of the colored flecks![]()