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Shiny_Rock
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- Feb 4, 2009
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Okay, I hate complaining so I'm going to try to keep it succinct but I need to voice this and see if any other LIW's are feeling this way.
As I mentioned in the V-day tips thread; I have a close friend who recently got engaged and now lives on top a pedestal. Their relationship is superior. And she talks nothing except bragging about the fact that they are engaged... There is a constant comparison to my boyfriend and I's relationship and she is convinced theirs is better because well, she got a ring.
Now, on the other end of the spectrum - I just found out another close friend of ours, who has been single for as long as I can remember is having a birthday bash for single girls only... so, now I am discriminated against because I have a boyfriend. I was really surprised that she hadn't brought anything up and I just asked her about it and that's why she hadn't invited me...
I am really shocked.. and hurt.. It's like.. JUST being boyfriend isn't good enough for some, and yet, having a boyfriend is too much for others!
And there we go, excitement and anticipation that I was filled with is killed
As I mentioned in the V-day tips thread; I have a close friend who recently got engaged and now lives on top a pedestal. Their relationship is superior. And she talks nothing except bragging about the fact that they are engaged... There is a constant comparison to my boyfriend and I's relationship and she is convinced theirs is better because well, she got a ring.
Now, on the other end of the spectrum - I just found out another close friend of ours, who has been single for as long as I can remember is having a birthday bash for single girls only... so, now I am discriminated against because I have a boyfriend. I was really surprised that she hadn't brought anything up and I just asked her about it and that's why she hadn't invited me...

I am really shocked.. and hurt.. It's like.. JUST being boyfriend isn't good enough for some, and yet, having a boyfriend is too much for others!

And there we go, excitement and anticipation that I was filled with is killed
