whitby_2773
Ideal_Rock
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when i used to work as a therapist, if i was seeing someone who was recovering from depression, i always asked them to build one thing that they liked into each day. firstly, because your brain simply likes it and makes all sorts of positive chemicals and hormones when you do. and secondly because it puts you in a position where you actually can say to yourself "well, today sucked - but! - i did *this* that i liked..." so it allows a person to frame every single day as having something good about it.
it's also a rule i use in my own every day life; i try to make sure there is at least one thing in every day that i like - whether it be eating a piece of turkish delight (i *love* turkish delight!!), buying flowers - or smelling flowers!, taking a walk, listening to music i enjoy, seeing a friend, a quiet cup of coffee on the verandah listening to the birds....well, you get the general idea.
it's currently 4am here in australia, so i havent had 'today' yet. however - yesterday i saw my 2 best girlfriends in the whole world.
and i did indeed have turkish delight.
so - how about you? what did you do today that you liked?
it's also a rule i use in my own every day life; i try to make sure there is at least one thing in every day that i like - whether it be eating a piece of turkish delight (i *love* turkish delight!!), buying flowers - or smelling flowers!, taking a walk, listening to music i enjoy, seeing a friend, a quiet cup of coffee on the verandah listening to the birds....well, you get the general idea.
it's currently 4am here in australia, so i havent had 'today' yet. however - yesterday i saw my 2 best girlfriends in the whole world.
and i did indeed have turkish delight.

so - how about you? what did you do today that you liked?