iota15
Brilliant_Rock
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I''m not even engaged yet, but BF and I have been seriously considering this hypothetical. I''d like to hear your thoughts though.
We want a small wedding. In fact, BF would love to elope but I would like to have an actual wedding reception. We''re also an interracial couple from two ethnicities that love mega-weddings (for where we live, think 300-500 people, multi-day weddings being around "the norm" from his side, and about 200-300 in attendance for my side). So what do you think of this?
Wedding ceremony - everyone and their dog is invited.
Wedding reception that night - the small intimate gathering we envisioned (close friends and immediate family only)
Wedding reception the next night - large extended family, family friends, maybe coworkers at a banquet hall/restaurant
We intend to pay for all of this on our own but as my mother points out, the second reception will likely pay for itself (cash gifts also being the norm).
We want a small wedding. In fact, BF would love to elope but I would like to have an actual wedding reception. We''re also an interracial couple from two ethnicities that love mega-weddings (for where we live, think 300-500 people, multi-day weddings being around "the norm" from his side, and about 200-300 in attendance for my side). So what do you think of this?
Wedding ceremony - everyone and their dog is invited.
Wedding reception that night - the small intimate gathering we envisioned (close friends and immediate family only)
Wedding reception the next night - large extended family, family friends, maybe coworkers at a banquet hall/restaurant
We intend to pay for all of this on our own but as my mother points out, the second reception will likely pay for itself (cash gifts also being the norm).