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Rough_Rock
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- Mar 23, 2013
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Hi everyone.
This is my first time on one of these forums. Me boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years. We have been talking about getting engaged, gone as far and ring shopping and figuring out what I want. I have a family jeweler that my family has gone to and trusted for 30 years. To me I want to love my ring for a lifetime and I feel it's important to find someone you trust and will help you pick out a ring that expresses your style. Very early in our relationship my boyfriend expressed that he went to school with my jewelers son (whom he dislikes) and would never give a penny of his hard earned money to this family owned jewelry store. I was kind of willing to chose my battles and give in to him but then the game changed a little bit...
My mother has given my grandmothers 1 ct engagement ring which I'm so excited to have and would like re-set in a setting of my choice. I would really feel most comfortable going to to my jewelers. I already brought them the ring and discussed possible options. Plus I've heard you have to be careful that places don't switch your diamond out for something else. Anyways this diamond means a lot to me as it is a family heirloom... Do I stand my ground and insist that we get this ring made at my jeweler? Or do I respect his decision and try to come up with an alternate option? I'm not sure which one of us is being more ridiculous. I don't want to get in a a huge fight over this. Can someone please shed some like on this situation.
This is my first time on one of these forums. Me boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years. We have been talking about getting engaged, gone as far and ring shopping and figuring out what I want. I have a family jeweler that my family has gone to and trusted for 30 years. To me I want to love my ring for a lifetime and I feel it's important to find someone you trust and will help you pick out a ring that expresses your style. Very early in our relationship my boyfriend expressed that he went to school with my jewelers son (whom he dislikes) and would never give a penny of his hard earned money to this family owned jewelry store. I was kind of willing to chose my battles and give in to him but then the game changed a little bit...
My mother has given my grandmothers 1 ct engagement ring which I'm so excited to have and would like re-set in a setting of my choice. I would really feel most comfortable going to to my jewelers. I already brought them the ring and discussed possible options. Plus I've heard you have to be careful that places don't switch your diamond out for something else. Anyways this diamond means a lot to me as it is a family heirloom... Do I stand my ground and insist that we get this ring made at my jeweler? Or do I respect his decision and try to come up with an alternate option? I'm not sure which one of us is being more ridiculous. I don't want to get in a a huge fight over this. Can someone please shed some like on this situation.