- May 23, 2006
Well, it seems that some of DH''s family is going to come visit us for his birthday. I feel bad saying that I''m kind of not happy about it, but I told him that if he wants them to come for his birthday, then of course it''s fine. The problem is that his family fights... a lot. My immediate family (which consists of my grandma, mom, and great aunt)never ever fights. I mean, we spat a little but we don''t full out fight. And they do. So anyway, it bothers DH but makes me very uncomfortable, and I was just wondering if anyone else has had families that come and visit and act like this. How do you deal with them? We live far away from our hometown, and so this place really is OURS, but I''m afraid things are going to go awry and really ruin DH''s birthday. Do any of you have thoughts on how to keep the peace, because I really don''t want to stress him out! Thanks!