Amzizzle
Shiny_Rock
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- Jul 17, 2008
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OK. So my Fiance and I are in the beginning stages of are wedding. We have always had a $1500 budget for my dress,because we have always been planning to pay.
I have tried on a few dresses and found one I keep going back to and the cost is around $1145.I love it! My father who is kind of unreliable and honestly really has never come through with much (I love him,but this is just a fault he has),well he and his wife offered to pay for my dress. I said on the phone it would be around $1100.He didn''t seem to object so I''ve assumed this is ok.
My grandmother (his mother) chimes in about that this is outrageous to spend on a wedding dress,and that I''m not having a REAL wedding so I should just go to a department store like Macy''s and find something there. I am having a small wedding of around 60 people,at a historic garden and B+B in Orlando,Fl. She said "well it''s not like your walking down a long aisle in a church or something so don''t go crazy". Then I told her I was thinking of not wearing a veil (just cause it''s not my style) and she said "Well your not having like some formal wedding and that''s more for those" It''s fine if she disagrees about cost because she sees it as to expensive,and if she disagrees about the veil because she wants me to wear one or whatever.
I''m just sick of hearing that "I''m not having a real wedding" and that''s why I shouldn''t have any of these things. I love her she is like a mother to me,but I think I''m just going to stop talking about these things with her because simply said it just hurts my feelings. If anyone has any advice or just supportive words I''ll take them.Oh and sorry it was so long.
I have tried on a few dresses and found one I keep going back to and the cost is around $1145.I love it! My father who is kind of unreliable and honestly really has never come through with much (I love him,but this is just a fault he has),well he and his wife offered to pay for my dress. I said on the phone it would be around $1100.He didn''t seem to object so I''ve assumed this is ok.
My grandmother (his mother) chimes in about that this is outrageous to spend on a wedding dress,and that I''m not having a REAL wedding so I should just go to a department store like Macy''s and find something there. I am having a small wedding of around 60 people,at a historic garden and B+B in Orlando,Fl. She said "well it''s not like your walking down a long aisle in a church or something so don''t go crazy". Then I told her I was thinking of not wearing a veil (just cause it''s not my style) and she said "Well your not having like some formal wedding and that''s more for those" It''s fine if she disagrees about cost because she sees it as to expensive,and if she disagrees about the veil because she wants me to wear one or whatever.
I''m just sick of hearing that "I''m not having a real wedding" and that''s why I shouldn''t have any of these things. I love her she is like a mother to me,but I think I''m just going to stop talking about these things with her because simply said it just hurts my feelings. If anyone has any advice or just supportive words I''ll take them.Oh and sorry it was so long.