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I don't want to sound unsupportive or like I have a problem with vegans. I'm fine with those who choose to be and was even a vegetarian myself for some years.
Some of you probably have seen that we just added a 13 (as of yesterday!) year old girl to our home. About a month ago, she decided that she is now vegan. This all started when a woman showed her a "documentary" that said meat is the cause of all illness and if you quit eating meat you'll never get sick.
Anyway, this 13 year old has grabbed hold of "vegan" as a way to have some control in her life. SO and I have been as supportive as we can manage and have gone out of our way to cook nice balanced vegan meals. "A" had been in a house where she was allowed to eat essentially all fruit with a bit of dried pasta tossed in her diet. She doesn't understand balancing nutrients and all that. I've been trying to teach her, but she still isn't eating as healthy of a diet as she should. (by far!)
She doesn't eat many veggies. I've been trying an assortment of veggies and cooking methods. Very little luck. She had been a big meat eater. She loves beef & lamb. I could get her to eat all sorts of veggies and stuff if I served it with meat. Now I'm lucky if I can get her to eat an orange and 1/2 slice of toast.
Any ideas on how to get her to let go of "vegan" without pushing her to hold on tighter? This isn't healthy for her.
It is clearly a control thing. I took her down to the deli for lunch today and as we were leaving she asked if I was surprised she made it this long. (she grabbed a yogurt for lunch today and had sour cream potato chips yesterday)
Do we cook our own meals and let her eat the veggies/beans/rice sides?
Do we cook our own meals and tell her that she can cook what she wants?
Maybe cook up thick juicy steaks while she has a vegan sausage?
Some of you probably have seen that we just added a 13 (as of yesterday!) year old girl to our home. About a month ago, she decided that she is now vegan. This all started when a woman showed her a "documentary" that said meat is the cause of all illness and if you quit eating meat you'll never get sick.
Anyway, this 13 year old has grabbed hold of "vegan" as a way to have some control in her life. SO and I have been as supportive as we can manage and have gone out of our way to cook nice balanced vegan meals. "A" had been in a house where she was allowed to eat essentially all fruit with a bit of dried pasta tossed in her diet. She doesn't understand balancing nutrients and all that. I've been trying to teach her, but she still isn't eating as healthy of a diet as she should. (by far!)
She doesn't eat many veggies. I've been trying an assortment of veggies and cooking methods. Very little luck. She had been a big meat eater. She loves beef & lamb. I could get her to eat all sorts of veggies and stuff if I served it with meat. Now I'm lucky if I can get her to eat an orange and 1/2 slice of toast.
Any ideas on how to get her to let go of "vegan" without pushing her to hold on tighter? This isn't healthy for her.
It is clearly a control thing. I took her down to the deli for lunch today and as we were leaving she asked if I was surprised she made it this long. (she grabbed a yogurt for lunch today and had sour cream potato chips yesterday)
Do we cook our own meals and let her eat the veggies/beans/rice sides?
Do we cook our own meals and tell her that she can cook what she wants?
Maybe cook up thick juicy steaks while she has a vegan sausage?