TravelingGal
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From some of our discussions over the last few days, thought some of you would find this article timely.
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30585984/
A quote:
Parents ''ferociously advocating''
“I see parents ferociously advocating for their children, responding with hostility to anyone they perceive as getting in the child''s way — from a person whose dog snuffles inquiringly at a baby in a carriage, to a teacher or coach whom they perceive is slighting their child, to a poor, hapless doctor who cannot cure the common cold,” says Gordon. “There is a feeling that anything interfering with their kid''s homeostasis, as they see it, is an inappropriate behavior to be fended off sharply.”
"Such defensiveness represents a radical departure from Gen X’s parental forebears, who, experts say, were more concerned about their children’s behavior toward others, rather than the other way around. But it also may highlight what makes many of today''s parents tick, as a group — specifically, how they themselves grew up. "
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30585984/
A quote:
Parents ''ferociously advocating''
“I see parents ferociously advocating for their children, responding with hostility to anyone they perceive as getting in the child''s way — from a person whose dog snuffles inquiringly at a baby in a carriage, to a teacher or coach whom they perceive is slighting their child, to a poor, hapless doctor who cannot cure the common cold,” says Gordon. “There is a feeling that anything interfering with their kid''s homeostasis, as they see it, is an inappropriate behavior to be fended off sharply.”
"Such defensiveness represents a radical departure from Gen X’s parental forebears, who, experts say, were more concerned about their children’s behavior toward others, rather than the other way around. But it also may highlight what makes many of today''s parents tick, as a group — specifically, how they themselves grew up. "