First off, I just wrote this post and accidentally deleted it. It took me like a thousand hours.
Anyway, like others, I need help from the more educated. I''ved tried really hard to understand the cut information, particularly the do-it-yourself Holloway cut advisor most people on here seem married (no pun) to, but I just can''t figure out how to do it. I''ve never felt so stupid, or overwhelmed, or frustrated. I''m sweating just writing the email. I have a few links below with diamonds I''m considering, and would like some comments and feedback on them or others similar, but I feel compelled to write the following in the event it helps:
Before last Friday I had never been in a jewelry store in my life. I have never seen a diamond up close (meaning any closer than checking a hand at a bar to see if some hot girl was married). I THINK I like Ascher stones, but I''ve NEVER seen one in person, only online. Is that a problem? Here''s ideally what I want in a ring. I want it to be understated and elegant, but at the same time I want it to be noticed, A LOT, and I want people to love it, not just my hopeful fiance, but everyone else as well (I am well aware that may be shallow, but for some reason I can''t pinpoint it''s just there in me as something I care about ... I might be a head-case). I also want it to be very shiny and sparkle a lot (those technical legal terms mean I need an awesome cut, right?) I want girls to think, "I wish I was as lucky as her", and I want guys to say "She''s not going anywhere, that guy''s like perfect". Now, I know a ring can''t do that, but I want it to be an accurate representation of what I think of her and how I treat her and the appreciation I have for her. (Seriously, don''t tell my friends I''m writing this sap, they''d NeVER let me forget it. It''s kinda embarrassing, BUT I only plan on doing it once, so ...).
Oh yah, and I only have about $2K-$2500 to spend. I should say b/c of my money constraints that I don''t honestly care about the size of the thing, and for the most part are think really big rings are tacky (no offense). With that said, I really want the stone I picke to stand on its own. I don''t want to need little side pieces (whatever they are called) to make the actual stone appear bigger. If I decide on side baquettes (sp??) inside of the band, it would only be to help it sparkle (technical term), but the stone has to do carry the rowing oar and be okay on its own. If it helps my GF is very slender, tiny even. I could post a pic if it would help and you all would promise not to steal her or tell others she''s ur girl.
Okay, enough, here''s the stones:
http://www.uniondiamond.com/diamonds/diamonds.php?search_type_id=3&action_type_id=2&item_id=AA603043&&0.72ct-D-VVS2-Asscher-Cut-Diamond
http://www.uniondiamond.com/diamonds/diamonds.php?search_type_id=&action_type_id=2&item_id=AA614606&&0.71ct-E-SI1-Asscher-Cut-Diamond
http://www.bluenile.com/diamonds_details.asp?__fun_frm=i&track=btntext_viewselect&elem=img&pid=LD00342309&filter_id=0
thanks very much for any help, advise, commentary. However, PLEASE do not post if it will only confuse me more. I can''t take that.
Anyway, like others, I need help from the more educated. I''ved tried really hard to understand the cut information, particularly the do-it-yourself Holloway cut advisor most people on here seem married (no pun) to, but I just can''t figure out how to do it. I''ve never felt so stupid, or overwhelmed, or frustrated. I''m sweating just writing the email. I have a few links below with diamonds I''m considering, and would like some comments and feedback on them or others similar, but I feel compelled to write the following in the event it helps:
Before last Friday I had never been in a jewelry store in my life. I have never seen a diamond up close (meaning any closer than checking a hand at a bar to see if some hot girl was married). I THINK I like Ascher stones, but I''ve NEVER seen one in person, only online. Is that a problem? Here''s ideally what I want in a ring. I want it to be understated and elegant, but at the same time I want it to be noticed, A LOT, and I want people to love it, not just my hopeful fiance, but everyone else as well (I am well aware that may be shallow, but for some reason I can''t pinpoint it''s just there in me as something I care about ... I might be a head-case). I also want it to be very shiny and sparkle a lot (those technical legal terms mean I need an awesome cut, right?) I want girls to think, "I wish I was as lucky as her", and I want guys to say "She''s not going anywhere, that guy''s like perfect". Now, I know a ring can''t do that, but I want it to be an accurate representation of what I think of her and how I treat her and the appreciation I have for her. (Seriously, don''t tell my friends I''m writing this sap, they''d NeVER let me forget it. It''s kinda embarrassing, BUT I only plan on doing it once, so ...).
Oh yah, and I only have about $2K-$2500 to spend. I should say b/c of my money constraints that I don''t honestly care about the size of the thing, and for the most part are think really big rings are tacky (no offense). With that said, I really want the stone I picke to stand on its own. I don''t want to need little side pieces (whatever they are called) to make the actual stone appear bigger. If I decide on side baquettes (sp??) inside of the band, it would only be to help it sparkle (technical term), but the stone has to do carry the rowing oar and be okay on its own. If it helps my GF is very slender, tiny even. I could post a pic if it would help and you all would promise not to steal her or tell others she''s ur girl.
Okay, enough, here''s the stones:
http://www.uniondiamond.com/diamonds/diamonds.php?search_type_id=3&action_type_id=2&item_id=AA603043&&0.72ct-D-VVS2-Asscher-Cut-Diamond
http://www.uniondiamond.com/diamonds/diamonds.php?search_type_id=&action_type_id=2&item_id=AA614606&&0.71ct-E-SI1-Asscher-Cut-Diamond
http://www.bluenile.com/diamonds_details.asp?__fun_frm=i&track=btntext_viewselect&elem=img&pid=LD00342309&filter_id=0
thanks very much for any help, advise, commentary. However, PLEASE do not post if it will only confuse me more. I can''t take that.