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Hi all. I want to start with the disclaimer that I don't really want this thread to turn into a pro/anti-breastfeeding thread, nor do I want it to turn into a pro/anti-working mom thread. I'm asking this question because I don't have much experience with this topic and I'd like to know what others think is reasonable and how you'd go about broaching the subject.
I work in a very small group - in fact there are only three of us total in my department. Because we each need two days off a week, 6 days a week there are only two employees, with all three of us being there together one day a week. I work with a woman that currently has a 6 month old and she is still breastfeeding him, which means that when she is at work for 8 hours, she needs to pump regularly. The problem is, her pumping breaks are negatively affecting our work day. She currently breaks for 30 minutes in the morning, 30 minutes in the afternoon around lunchtime (but not during her lunch break), and for 30 minutes toward the end of the day. During these breaks, she uses the computer to check her personal email account, browses the internet, or reads gossip magazines. In other words, she is not working during these breaks, yet is still on the clock. This is 90 minutes of time that she is getting paid yet not working, and more so than that, it is 90 minutes during the day that my co-worker and I have to carry the entire work load on our days when we work with her, as she is half of the two-person team and many of our tasks require both of us to be present. There is no official policy on breastfeeding at my company, but we also do not receive any breaks during the day other than a 30 minute lunch, so if I wanted to bring this up to her, I can't cite anything saying she CAN'T take these breaks for as long as she does, but I also can't cite anything that says she can either. I would talk to my supervisor, but I'd like to discuss this with her first instead, since I don't want her to get in trouble.
For a while we hadn't brought it up with her, since we realize that we have to keep the peace in such a close-knit work environment, but she announced to us at lunch the other day that she intends to keep breastfeeding for at least the first year of her child's life, which means at least 6 more months of this schedule, which I'm just not enthusiastic about dealing with. I think that I would be much more understanding if she was apologetic, but she doesn't ever feel sorry for sticking us with so much work or even say something like "I'm sorry guys, but I have to go pump". She more just seems to disappear for 30 minutes at a time, severely limiting what we can accomplish during the workday.
For those that did juggle breastfeeding and work, how did you deal with this issue and what is a reasonable amount of time that needs to be spent breastfeeding? We are kind of under the impression that she is taking advantage of us, but as I said, I'm not a parent yet so I'm not sure what is normal and what is not. Also, knowing that this is something we could be dealing with for the next 6 months or so, do you have any advice on how to phrase this so that it's not an all-out attack on her choices, but lets her know that we cannot happily continue this way?
Thank you in advance...
I work in a very small group - in fact there are only three of us total in my department. Because we each need two days off a week, 6 days a week there are only two employees, with all three of us being there together one day a week. I work with a woman that currently has a 6 month old and she is still breastfeeding him, which means that when she is at work for 8 hours, she needs to pump regularly. The problem is, her pumping breaks are negatively affecting our work day. She currently breaks for 30 minutes in the morning, 30 minutes in the afternoon around lunchtime (but not during her lunch break), and for 30 minutes toward the end of the day. During these breaks, she uses the computer to check her personal email account, browses the internet, or reads gossip magazines. In other words, she is not working during these breaks, yet is still on the clock. This is 90 minutes of time that she is getting paid yet not working, and more so than that, it is 90 minutes during the day that my co-worker and I have to carry the entire work load on our days when we work with her, as she is half of the two-person team and many of our tasks require both of us to be present. There is no official policy on breastfeeding at my company, but we also do not receive any breaks during the day other than a 30 minute lunch, so if I wanted to bring this up to her, I can't cite anything saying she CAN'T take these breaks for as long as she does, but I also can't cite anything that says she can either. I would talk to my supervisor, but I'd like to discuss this with her first instead, since I don't want her to get in trouble.
For a while we hadn't brought it up with her, since we realize that we have to keep the peace in such a close-knit work environment, but she announced to us at lunch the other day that she intends to keep breastfeeding for at least the first year of her child's life, which means at least 6 more months of this schedule, which I'm just not enthusiastic about dealing with. I think that I would be much more understanding if she was apologetic, but she doesn't ever feel sorry for sticking us with so much work or even say something like "I'm sorry guys, but I have to go pump". She more just seems to disappear for 30 minutes at a time, severely limiting what we can accomplish during the workday.
For those that did juggle breastfeeding and work, how did you deal with this issue and what is a reasonable amount of time that needs to be spent breastfeeding? We are kind of under the impression that she is taking advantage of us, but as I said, I'm not a parent yet so I'm not sure what is normal and what is not. Also, knowing that this is something we could be dealing with for the next 6 months or so, do you have any advice on how to phrase this so that it's not an all-out attack on her choices, but lets her know that we cannot happily continue this way?
Thank you in advance...