MRBXXXFVVS1
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Great topic @MRBXXXFVVS1.
1. Most importantly believe in yourself.
2. Don't worry what other people think of you.
3. Don't be afraid to stand up and stand out.
4. Money is not the most important thing.
5. Today is what is important. Pay attention to what is happening now. Yesterday is over and tomorrow isn't here yet.
Let it go. Don't let it eat away at you. What is done is done. You cannot change it so don't obsess and ruminate. Don't waste your precious energy on anger or disappointment or regret. Move forward.
6. Let the little things roll off you. Don't sweat the small stuff and most of it is small stuff.
7. Look for the good in everything and count your blessings. Be grateful and appreciative and thankful for each and every day and for your loved ones.
8. Be kind to everyone you meet. You have no idea what they are going through and what a little kindness can do.
9. I would rather be happy than right. See the "Let it go" advice above.
Hmmmm. I'm mid 50's so here goes.
Cherish your people but esp. elders. Once they're gone, they stay gone. Ask them all the things you think you'll want to know later. Hug, hold hands, create memories to sustain you when they're gone.
Be authentic. Speak up, say no.
Figure out your boundaries and stick to them. They will change over time, but have them.
Stay active. Don't neglect you bones.
Save money.
Travel if you can.
Enjoy this time cuz change is a-comin'. Perimenopause and menopause.
@Niffler75 see my above post. There’s a lot of good in menopause.
I think every decade has something wonderful to offer.
I turned 46 (blimey, how did THAT happen??!) last Sunday, and I wish I'd asked this question in my 20's!
For me, all of the above. But especially:
Look after your friendships. As above, let go of the popularity & quantity, settle for quality. I have a few dear friends all over the world that I haven't seen in years, but I would hop on a plane for any of them in a heartbeat.
Look after your health, both physically & mentally. Exercise & contemplate. Make peace & let go.
Don't give a toss about what others think of you. Be the best version of yourself & be happy. You don't have to justify your actions if they were the right ones to make.
Follow your moral compass. Your conscience & your children will thank you for it.
Spend as much time as you can with those you love. I lost my father suddenly when I was 27 & I cannot TELL you how glad I am in hindsight, that I spent so much time with him. We were & continue to be a very strong, tight family. We have so many memories & often end up peeing our pants reminiscing!
Save & plan, but travel & explore where possible. The world is an AMAZING & wondrous place to discover! Apart from that long-drop toilet I had to use in a remote part of New Zealand. Not amazing or wondrous![]()
Fantastic advice ladies!
I'm intrigued by the exercise comments.
I sometimes feel like I waste so much time exercising but I do it anyway and often wonder if it's worth it so I'm really glad to see so many of you reiterate its importance.