Demelza
Ideal_Rock
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I thought I''d start this thread for anyone out there who has (or had) toddlers who just wouldn''t sleep. My daughter is 22 months and has never slept through the night....EVER! If I''m lucky, she''ll do one 4-5 hour stretch, but the rest of the night is usually dreadful. For the first year or so, she co-slept and nursed all night. I was hoping she would eventually begin to sleep more soundly on her own without much intervention. By the time she was 15 months, however, things were getting worse and I''d had it. Since then, we''ve tried a variety of sleep training methods and spent an absurd amount of money on sleep consultants with little to no improvement. I''m trying to accept that she will sleep through the night when she''s ready (apparently I didn''t sleep through the night until I was 4 -- my mom claims this is payback!), but, after nearly 2 years, it''s hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Other than being very petite for her age, she''s a very healthy, very bright little girl and we love her more than anything on this earth. I just wish she''d sleep! I can''t imagine how our lives would be different if this were no longer an issue.
Anyone else out there with a similar situation? How''d you get through it? Did you give up trying different techniques and just accept that your kid isn''t a good sleeper? I sometimes wonder if she would start sleeping better if we stopped obsessing about it. Anyway, I''d love to hear your stories!
Anyone else out there with a similar situation? How''d you get through it? Did you give up trying different techniques and just accept that your kid isn''t a good sleeper? I sometimes wonder if she would start sleeping better if we stopped obsessing about it. Anyway, I''d love to hear your stories!