Wow, I''m so glad I found pricescope.com. I feel so much more empowered than before, it''s incredible. I''ll start off by saying thanks to all who post, from the newbies to the pros, it''s all great and informative. Almost makes me wish I was in the industry since it''s so fascinating.
Anyway, I love reading the posts about people''s diamond searches so I thouht I''d post up my story as it unfolds right here.
Let''s go back, way back...into time...
I met Glabellla (an alias for secrecy purposes) about a year and a half ago. We had instant chemistry and became immediate friends. Because we were working together, we tried to keep it all plutonic, but by February we were inseperable. One night, I confessed that I wanted more and she shut the door on me! Haha...the next day, she was back over at my house and we had made up. We decided to take it slow (agonizingly slow), but to see where things would go. It was no surprise to either of us that we continued to click and are now shopping for an engagement ring. It''s funny, I liked the single life and had plenty of fun, but now I''m looking at throwing down some serious cash so I can stay with one person. Love is a crazy thing.
But I digress, you all want to hear about the bling, not they why of it.
She''s a picky one, Glabella is. She wants a princess cut stone and nothing else. She has the number 3 stuck in her head as well (when I think 2 is plenty big). After that, she''s very discerning about color and fire/brilliance, but not as much about clarity.
So, our search started at the mall stores. Bailey, Banks and Biddle, Jared, Shane Co etc. We happened to be in San Francisco and spent about 2 hours in a Shane Co there. Without having any knowledge, I was talked into putting some cash ($8g!) to hold a 3.01 ct, VS1, G stone without a certificate and not even knowing the measurements. I knew I was being naive but I could always get my money back if I wanted. They were asking $40,000 for it. This was already more than I wanted to spend.
Next, we were back on the East Coast in Orlando so we went to the Shane Co there. They had a 3.01 G, SI1 for us to see there, but it was "cloudy" so we passed. We spent another 2 hours there though and they went ahead and offered to bring in some other stones and the one we had saved in SF. We went back and looked at a total of 3 stones. The two I mentioned and a new 3.02 ct VS1, H. We ended up liking the newest one best, and since it was $36,000 we decided to place that one on hold with the funds I had already given them. Again, no cert shown, no dimensions known. I had no idea to even ask about such things. They would NOT budge on price.
They were all GREAT salespeople and very friendly and accomadating. I felt very comfortable and didn''t feel pressured at all. I put a hold on the stone because Glabella liked it so much and I knew I could back out anytime.
She also fell in love with a Calla cut band/setting from Nelson Ho, which I''ll post a pic of below.
Anyway, I still wanted to do more research on this very expensive purchase. I''m a huge fan of internet research and I spend hours online researching products/trips/restaurants that I am considering. Just for fun, here are my faves: www.fatwallet.com, www.slickdeals.net, www.yelp.com, www.biddingfortravel.com, www.avsforums.com and www.tripadvisor.com. I don''t represent any of these, but if even one of you finds them interesting, maybe I gave something back to this community. Sorry if it isn''t appropriate.
I went to bluenile first, and saw that the price I was paying was pretty steep. I finally found pricescope and really had my eyes opened. I''m still swimming in all the knowledge.
A few days ago, I called Shane Co again and talked to the guy who helped me buy the stone. I told him I had found some better prices online. I also told him about pricescope (he knew of it) and also asked about why the stone I had on hold didn''t have any lab certification. He said that they had their own in house people grade it, but never offered to give me the stats. He tried to minimize the grading laboratories. In the end though, he didn''t really offer too much resistance, and had my money transferred back to me.
Now we are all pretty much caught up.
I''ve seen some diamonds that caught my eye and I''m asking the PS community to give me some guidance.
I also would like to have some input on the setting and an appraiser.
Anyway, I love reading the posts about people''s diamond searches so I thouht I''d post up my story as it unfolds right here.
Let''s go back, way back...into time...
I met Glabellla (an alias for secrecy purposes) about a year and a half ago. We had instant chemistry and became immediate friends. Because we were working together, we tried to keep it all plutonic, but by February we were inseperable. One night, I confessed that I wanted more and she shut the door on me! Haha...the next day, she was back over at my house and we had made up. We decided to take it slow (agonizingly slow), but to see where things would go. It was no surprise to either of us that we continued to click and are now shopping for an engagement ring. It''s funny, I liked the single life and had plenty of fun, but now I''m looking at throwing down some serious cash so I can stay with one person. Love is a crazy thing.
But I digress, you all want to hear about the bling, not they why of it.
She''s a picky one, Glabella is. She wants a princess cut stone and nothing else. She has the number 3 stuck in her head as well (when I think 2 is plenty big). After that, she''s very discerning about color and fire/brilliance, but not as much about clarity.
So, our search started at the mall stores. Bailey, Banks and Biddle, Jared, Shane Co etc. We happened to be in San Francisco and spent about 2 hours in a Shane Co there. Without having any knowledge, I was talked into putting some cash ($8g!) to hold a 3.01 ct, VS1, G stone without a certificate and not even knowing the measurements. I knew I was being naive but I could always get my money back if I wanted. They were asking $40,000 for it. This was already more than I wanted to spend.
Next, we were back on the East Coast in Orlando so we went to the Shane Co there. They had a 3.01 G, SI1 for us to see there, but it was "cloudy" so we passed. We spent another 2 hours there though and they went ahead and offered to bring in some other stones and the one we had saved in SF. We went back and looked at a total of 3 stones. The two I mentioned and a new 3.02 ct VS1, H. We ended up liking the newest one best, and since it was $36,000 we decided to place that one on hold with the funds I had already given them. Again, no cert shown, no dimensions known. I had no idea to even ask about such things. They would NOT budge on price.
They were all GREAT salespeople and very friendly and accomadating. I felt very comfortable and didn''t feel pressured at all. I put a hold on the stone because Glabella liked it so much and I knew I could back out anytime.
She also fell in love with a Calla cut band/setting from Nelson Ho, which I''ll post a pic of below.
Anyway, I still wanted to do more research on this very expensive purchase. I''m a huge fan of internet research and I spend hours online researching products/trips/restaurants that I am considering. Just for fun, here are my faves: www.fatwallet.com, www.slickdeals.net, www.yelp.com, www.biddingfortravel.com, www.avsforums.com and www.tripadvisor.com. I don''t represent any of these, but if even one of you finds them interesting, maybe I gave something back to this community. Sorry if it isn''t appropriate.
I went to bluenile first, and saw that the price I was paying was pretty steep. I finally found pricescope and really had my eyes opened. I''m still swimming in all the knowledge.
A few days ago, I called Shane Co again and talked to the guy who helped me buy the stone. I told him I had found some better prices online. I also told him about pricescope (he knew of it) and also asked about why the stone I had on hold didn''t have any lab certification. He said that they had their own in house people grade it, but never offered to give me the stats. He tried to minimize the grading laboratories. In the end though, he didn''t really offer too much resistance, and had my money transferred back to me.
Now we are all pretty much caught up.
I''ve seen some diamonds that caught my eye and I''m asking the PS community to give me some guidance.
I also would like to have some input on the setting and an appraiser.