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The cost of Rescue, and the benefit of Fostering

SandyinAnaheim

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This past Thursday I was notified by a neighbor that they had succeeded in trapping a small homeless dog in their yard that they had been trying to catch for 6 weeks. It had been living and hiding in his neighborhood for that long or more, but just couldn't be caught. Animal Control had come out MANY times to try and get it, but because they live near the hills, there's plenty of space for the dog to disappear and make itself uncatchable in the brush. My neighbor said he couldn't approach the dog in his yard, it was very skittish and untrusting. He didn't know if it was male or female, its age or condition, but knew it couldn't just live back there indefinitely in its condition. So he called me to help him.

I contacted the rescue I used to work with when I first started my business, and they said they would assume responsibility for it and adopt it out when the time came. I went there Thursday evening after work in an effort to catch it so it could be groomed and assessed. We tried to lure it with food, which he said worked, but it did not. I was able to get a lead around its neck and we got it into a crate!!! I put it in my van and brought it home. I really didn't want to start grooming a matted dog at 7pm, but I couldn't bring it into my house in its condition as I was CERTAIN it was loaded with fleas and I can't risk contaminating my two little angels like that.

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I gave it chicken and it came out of its crate a little bit and ate it all up, looking for more. I was able to get it out of its crate and on to the table with more chicken. As I started to touch it and talk to it calmingly, it seemed to relax a little bit. After 15 minutes of making friends, I moved to pick it up to put it in the tub and it attacked me. It all happened very fast and as I think back on it, I can't find what I did wrong or to scare it. The only thing that happened at the same time was that a huge fireworks explosion went off at that exact same time and put it into a frenzy. I live in a neighborhood where people have been setting off illegal fireworks that sound like mortars and rattle our windows EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. The dog mangled my hands with about 20 punctures.

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I still had to get the job done.....so I put a cone on it and got it into the tub and bathed it, shaved it, bathed it again and groomed it, without further incident. I can't imagine how terrified it must have been to go from being a street dog, trapped in a yard with a stranger, trapped in a crate and transported by another stranger, to being trapped in a van with explosions going off outside.....

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She is a little girl, about 10-12 months old.... VERY skittish and fearful of everything, trying to get away from everyone and not wanting to be touched whatsoever. But she let me groom her and I know she felt so much better because mats HURT. I brought her in the house and fed her again in her crate. She passed out after that.

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After the grooming, I left her with a 6ft lead around her neck so I didn't have to come too close to her in order to get her out of the crate. The next morning, I brought her out and walked her, gave her breakfast and put her back in the crate. My two little ones were very curious about her and per usual, were running around being their silly selves, playing with toys and playing guard dog. I don't think she's ever seen dogs interacting with humans like this before and was very observant of the activity. The rescue had me take her to the vet to check for a chip and a check up, and to check out an anomaly I found to her left eye. The rescue named her Molly. She didn't have a chip so they gave her one, and my guess on her age was accurate. She has a relatively clean bill of health and got meds to help her transition to a real diet without stomach upset. Her left eye is smaller than her right, but not due to injury or infection, it's just a birth defect.

In ONE DAY Molly went from a terrified attacking girl, to a wagging clingy girl who wanted nothing more than to bury herself in and on me. She is completely not aggressive, and follows me around the house wherever I go....tapping my leg with her nose for attention. The change is nothing short of remarkable. I have fostered before, but never with such a semi-feral young dog, so I am completely shocked at the transformation. Fostering and socialization with other dogs is SO much more powerful than I ever thought. It's happened so well and so fast that the rescue wants me to keep working with her for another few days. She's practically housebroken in two days because she sees what the other pups are doing and copies them.

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This has been a WONDERFUL and painful experience thus far and I'm so glad I was not scared away by her fear. She just needed a little time to decompress and adjust to life as part of a family and home. She's going to make someone a very loyal and loving little lapdog. I know I've neglected following up on some of my other sensitive posts over the weekend, and this is the reason why. I typically don't share this kind of stuff on here, but this event was just so unusual and dramatic, that I thought some of you might be interested in knowing about what could happen in rescue, and the transformative power of fostering.
 
@SandyinAnaheim - such a heartwarming story. I can't image how this little girl was left homeless. People can be so awful and I don't understand how they can abandon an animal. You're a wonderful person with a huge heart. Thank you for taking this baby in and being patient with her. Just think how wonderful she feels, a warm bed, companions and food. I wish I could help in some way. Bless you. Q:wavey:
 
Sandy, you are a good human. We fostered a couple of years ago for selfish reasons (looking to adopt a pet) and I really admire those who foster out of pure love and kindness.
 
@SandyinAnaheim Oh gosh your poor hands! :eek2:What a story!

Our Hershey girl was a 1yo feral cat that had been rescued as she was unwell. Her fur was all matted with knots when we took her home. She was a wild thing, all teeth and claws, and the rescue were not sure she would settle. We have had experience with ferals before.
It took a while but now she is a playful loving girl. She will never be a lap cat but she loves to snuggle super close and lick my hands. :mrgreen2:20200227_172126.jpg
 
When you look at yourself in the mirror - you know what angels look like @SandyinAnaheim. And having met you, I do too. Trappers, fosters, animal health professionals, shelter personnel - angels amongst us.

Molly is so lucky she found her way into your home. Look at her snuggling with your babies!! :love: And those before and after photos... WHAT a transformation. And what a mess she made of your hand getting there ;(

Thank you for sharing! Please let us know how she does ::)
 
Hi,

Oh Sandy, what a nice story. The little dog is so cute and I agree you are such a wonderful person working with animals as you do. Thanks.

Annette
 
HI:

Thank you for sharing. I hope Molly finds a loving forever home and that your hands heal quickly.

kind regards--Sharon
 
Thank God you were there. If you had not been there, even if someone else had managed to capture the dog, it might not have worked out as well. You knew exactly what to do, and not only because you are a professional groomer, but because of your very keen dog instincts. You are in tune with dogs and also truly care. You are not simply a Good Samaritan (not that we can ever have enough of those)! Brava, Sandy! You saved that little girl. She is a precious soul. Molly.
 
Good on you!

DK :clap:
 
Sandy you have a heart of solid gold!
What a sweet wee thing. So sorry you were bitten but the poor little mite was just absolutely terrified. You never know if they were previously beaten or kicked by a cruel human.
I’d keep her. I was a foster failure with Miss Button. Just couldn’t bear the thought that she might have further unfortunate or unpleasant life experiences and the way to prevent that was to keep her. Miss Buttin thrived and lived til 15 years and 3 months. Vale Princess.5EB5516C-FDC4-4DA9-B782-3A8EC6BC8BFE.jpeg
 
You are a good egg Sandy. You make the world a better place.

Molly has a whole new life because of you. That's just such a powerful energy to be able to put out in the world.

Your poor hand though!!!!!
 
This past Thursday I was notified by a neighbor that they had succeeded in trapping a small homeless dog in their yard that they had been trying to catch for 6 weeks. It had been living and hiding in his neighborhood for that long or more, but just couldn't be caught. Animal Control had come out MANY times to try and get it, but because they live near the hills, there's plenty of space for the dog to disappear and make itself uncatchable in the brush. My neighbor said he couldn't approach the dog in his yard, it was very skittish and untrusting. He didn't know if it was male or female, its age or condition, but knew it couldn't just live back there indefinitely in its condition. So he called me to help him.

I contacted the rescue I used to work with when I first started my business, and they said they would assume responsibility for it and adopt it out when the time came. I went there Thursday evening after work in an effort to catch it so it could be groomed and assessed. We tried to lure it with food, which he said worked, but it did not. I was able to get a lead around its neck and we got it into a crate!!! I put it in my van and brought it home. I really didn't want to start grooming a matted dog at 7pm, but I couldn't bring it into my house in its condition as I was CERTAIN it was loaded with fleas and I can't risk contaminating my two little angels like that.

Molly3.jpg
Molly4.jpg

I gave it chicken and it came out of its crate a little bit and ate it all up, looking for more. I was able to get it out of its crate and on to the table with more chicken. As I started to touch it and talk to it calmingly, it seemed to relax a little bit. After 15 minutes of making friends, I moved to pick it up to put it in the tub and it attacked me. It all happened very fast and as I think back on it, I can't find what I did wrong or to scare it. The only thing that happened at the same time was that a huge fireworks explosion went off at that exact same time and put it into a frenzy. I live in a neighborhood where people have been setting off illegal fireworks that sound like mortars and rattle our windows EVERY SINGLE NIGHT. The dog mangled my hands with about 20 punctures.

Hands.jpg
Hands1.jpg
Hands2.jpg
Hands3.jpg

I still had to get the job done.....so I put a cone on it and got it into the tub and bathed it, shaved it, bathed it again and groomed it, without further incident. I can't imagine how terrified it must have been to go from being a street dog, trapped in a yard with a stranger, trapped in a crate and transported by another stranger, to being trapped in a van with explosions going off outside.....

Molly.jpg
Molly1.jpg
Molly2.jpg

She is a little girl, about 10-12 months old.... VERY skittish and fearful of everything, trying to get away from everyone and not wanting to be touched whatsoever. But she let me groom her and I know she felt so much better because mats HURT. I brought her in the house and fed her again in her crate. She passed out after that.

Molly5.jpg

After the grooming, I left her with a 6ft lead around her neck so I didn't have to come too close to her in order to get her out of the crate. The next morning, I brought her out and walked her, gave her breakfast and put her back in the crate. My two little ones were very curious about her and per usual, were running around being their silly selves, playing with toys and playing guard dog. I don't think she's ever seen dogs interacting with humans like this before and was very observant of the activity. The rescue had me take her to the vet to check for a chip and a check up, and to check out an anomaly I found to her left eye. The rescue named her Molly. She didn't have a chip so they gave her one, and my guess on her age was accurate. She has a relatively clean bill of health and got meds to help her transition to a real diet without stomach upset. Her left eye is smaller than her right, but not due to injury or infection, it's just a birth defect.

In ONE DAY Molly went from a terrified attacking girl, to a wagging clingy girl who wanted nothing more than to bury herself in and on me. She is completely not aggressive, and follows me around the house wherever I go....tapping my leg with her nose for attention. The change is nothing short of remarkable. I have fostered before, but never with such a semi-feral young dog, so I am completely shocked at the transformation. Fostering and socialization with other dogs is SO much more powerful than I ever thought. It's happened so well and so fast that the rescue wants me to keep working with her for another few days. She's practically housebroken in two days because she sees what the other pups are doing and copies them.

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This has been a WONDERFUL and painful experience thus far and I'm so glad I was not scared away by her fear. She just needed a little time to decompress and adjust to life as part of a family and home. She's going to make someone a very loyal and loving little lapdog. I know I've neglected following up on some of my other sensitive posts over the weekend, and this is the reason why. I typically don't share this kind of stuff on here, but this event was just so unusual and dramatic, that I thought some of you might be interested in knowing about what could happen in rescue, and the transformative power of fostering.

You are the best! I always foster. Then end up keeping the rescues. It’s a family joke!
 
Aaw, Molly looks so much better after you groomed her, and she sounds like a clever girl! I'm glad she has you to care for her and teach her how to be a pampered pup.
 
@SandyinAnaheim - such a heartwarming story. I can't image how this little girl was left homeless. People can be so awful and I don't understand how they can abandon an animal. You're a wonderful person with a huge heart. Thank you for taking this baby in and being patient with her. Just think how wonderful she feels, a warm bed, companions and food. I wish I could help in some way. Bless you. Q:wavey:
Thank you @Queenie60! I wish nothing less for her than the comforts of a home, like a normal girl. It is not her fault that she was abandoned and scared. You CAN help, very easily. There are so many worthy dog rescues (and many more that are disreputable) out there. They rely on donations to get the babies fixed up, fostered and then placed. I personally know of not a single rescue that makes any money. If they have excess, they just rescue more pups, and that's how I like it. If I won the lottery I would change the world for many animals, but because I haven't, I give in the small ways I can, like this You know how to reach me in case you have an extra $5 or $10 per month you could spare. I would be happy to point you to some CA rescues making a BIG difference for these poor babies. And I thank you for your intent.

Sandy, you are a good human. We fostered a couple of years ago for selfish reasons (looking to adopt a pet) and I really admire those who foster out of pure love and kindness.
@bludiva There is no such thing as selfish fostering.....many people foster to "try on" a dog before they adopt. That is typical and normal. You are still serving a purpose! Many rescues can only save as many dogs as they have fosters for - so it doesn't matter what your intentions are/were. Foster fails are WONDERFUL, and YOU help open up a spot for another baby to be saved. If people have the time and are willing to help socialize, you can do A LOT of good!!

@SandyinAnaheim Oh gosh your poor hands! :eek2:What a story!

Our Hershey girl was a 1yo feral cat that had been rescued as she was unwell. Her fur was all matted with knots when we took her home. She was a wild thing, all teeth and claws, and the rescue were not sure she would settle. We have had experience with ferals before.
It took a while but now she is a playful loving girl. She will never be a lap cat but she loves to snuggle super close and lick my hands. :mrgreen2:20200227_172126.jpg
@Niffler75 Hershey is glorious! Some people don't have the patience for the difficult cases, but that is EXACTLY where the patience counts for something. I'm so glad you had it for her. She seems to have opened very nicely. :kiss2:

When you look at yourself in the mirror - you know what angels look like @SandyinAnaheim. And having met you, I do too. Trappers, fosters, animal health professionals, shelter personnel - angels amongst us.

Molly is so lucky she found her way into your home. Look at her snuggling with your babies!! :love: And those before and after photos... WHAT a transformation. And what a mess she made of your hand getting there ;(

Thank you for sharing! Please let us know how she does ::)
Thank you @yssie. You are too kind. I am no angel, as you also know...but I do try to make a difference wherever I can for the less fortunate. Her groom was not ideal as some of the mats had to be clipped super close to her skin, and I was REALLY trying to leave some hair on her. The bites are mostly semi-superficial with only 3 deep punctures, but I can't blame her. The problem is that hands don't have a lot of muscle, so what little flesh is there is prone to severe swelling from trauma. But this will be gone in a week yet the memory of having saved her will last a lifetime.
 
ouch your poor hands!
Lucky pooch!
But you know that is not nearly enough pictures of your fur babies right?:saint:
 
Hi,

Oh Sandy, what a nice story. The little dog is so cute and I agree you are such a wonderful person working with animals as you do. Thanks.

Annette
Thank you @smitcompton, that is very sweet. I appreciate it.

@SandyinAnaheim , you are a living angel. The world needs more people like you!
Thank you @stracci2000, I really am not! I just like to help those less fortunate than myself, especially if they have four legs.:D

HI:

Thank you for sharing. I hope Molly finds a loving forever home and that your hands heal quickly.

kind regards--Sharon
Thank you Sharon @canuk-gal !

Thank God you were there. If you had not been there, even if someone else had managed to capture the dog, it might not have worked out as well. You knew exactly what to do, and not only because you are a professional groomer, but because of your very keen dog instincts. You are in tune with dogs and also truly care. You are not simply a Good Samaritan (not that we can ever have enough of those)! Brava, Sandy! You saved that little girl. She is a precious soul. Molly.
Thank you @AGBF! I did try my best and yes, she is precious. But then again, I haven't met one yet that isn't. You hit the nail on your post. Thank you for recognizing!

Good on you!DK :clap:

Thank you @dk168 !
 
Molly was very fortunate to have met you when she did. These acts of kindness will always be remembered. You changed a poor dog's life and now she has a chance at finding a forever home. That was such a beautiful story and even though you may not think it, you really are an angel Sandy.
 
@SandyinAnaheim What a beautiful, heartwarming story! Thank you so much for sharing. I don’t normally share PS stuff with the DH, but your post I must. You have given sweet Molly such a gift of love, care and a future with a family who will adore her. My folks had a kennel when I was growing up, dad was the dog warden. We fostered and saved many different kinds of animals. It wasn’t always easy. You’re amazing!
 
Sandy you have a heart of solid gold!
What a sweet wee thing. So sorry you were bitten but the poor little mite was just absolutely terrified. You never know if they were previously beaten or kicked by a cruel human.
I’d keep her. I was a foster failure with Miss Button. Just couldn’t bear the thought that she might have further unfortunate or unpleasant life experiences and the way to prevent that was to keep her. Miss Buttin thrived and lived til 15 years and 3 months. Vale Princess.5EB5516C-FDC4-4DA9-B782-3A8EC6BC8BFE.jpeg
@Bron357 Miss Button was a BABE! So beautiful and sweet a face.... You are the first
to recognize that I DO want to keep Molly. Unfortunately, I live in my husband's house and he keeps me under tight control because we'd be living with 70+ dogs if I had my way. I will be praying that he falls in love with her in the next ten days we have her and that she can stay with my little pack. She is a nervous little girl and I fear for her future with others less aware of her predisposition.

You are a good egg Sandy. You make the world a better place.

Molly has a whole new life because of you. That's just such a powerful energy to be able to put out in the world.

Your poor hand though!!!!!
Thank you @mellowyellowgirl for recognizing that making a difference in one creature's life has an impact. My hands will be fine shortly, but the benefit to Molly will last the rest of her life.

You are the best! I always foster. Then end up keeping the rescues. It’s a family joke!
@caf my intent is to do the same!! :lol-2:

Thanks for saving this little girl. I hope she finds a wonderful forever home.
I do too!

Aaw, Molly looks so much better after you groomed her, and she sounds like a clever girl! I'm glad she has you to care for her and teach her how to be a pampered pup.

Thank you @JPie. I wish the same for her.
 
ouch your poor hands! Lucky pooch!
But you know that is not nearly enough pictures of your fur babies right?:saint:
Thank you @Karl_K, I'll try to post more pictures of my gargoyles....

Molly was very fortunate to have met you when she did. These acts of kindness will always be remembered. You changed a poor dog's life and now she has a chance at finding a forever home. That was such a beautiful story and even though you may not think it, you really are an angel Sandy.
Thank you @maryjane04 , I feel the same way. My goal is to get them off the street and cared for. It is my belief that if one domesticates animals, one should now be responsible for their well-being, without exploitation, for the rest of their lives. I am happy that you enjoyed the story! You post sparingly, so thank you for posting here.

@SandyinAnaheim What a beautiful, heartwarming story! Thank you so much for sharing. I don’t normally share PS stuff with the DH, but your post I must. You have given sweet Molly such a gift of love, care and a future with a family who will adore her. My folks had a kennel when I was growing up, dad was the dog warden. We fostered and saved many different kinds of animals. It wasn’t always easy. You’re amazing!
You're right @Slick1, it isn't always easy. But nothing worth having ever is, right? Thank you for your kind words.
 
Thank you @maryjane04 , I feel the same way. My goal is to get them off the street and cared for. It is my belief that if one domesticates animals, one should now be responsible for their well-being, without exploitation, for the rest of their lives. I am happy that you enjoyed the story! You post sparingly, so thank you for posting here.

Well if there is one thing I love more than diamonds and sparklies, it is dogs! I feel too many breed to make money without considering the welfare of the puppies brought into this world. I also feel that what you give, you get back ten folds with these dogs. It's such a shame that some people can't see that. So thank you for your story and thank you for all the work you do to give these dogs another chance at having a loving home.
 
Well if there is one thing I love more than diamonds and sparklies, it is dogs! I feel too many breed to make money without considering the welfare of the puppies brought into this world. I also feel that what you give, you get back ten folds with these dogs. It's such a shame that some people can't see that. So thank you for your story and thank you for all the work you do to give these dogs another chance at having a loving home.

This!!!
 
Wonderful rescue Sandy. I just wanted to say that my sister in law had a small dog that really only bonded with her. There had clearly been issues created for the dog from an earlier stage of her life. Unfortunately my sister in law died and I feared for what would become of the dog who was aggressive towards anyone other than Anne coming near it. Amazingly through persistence we managed to get Meso to trust us and pet her. I've also noticed that she is now much more open to others patting her too. She has become far more trusting. It's actually a testament to the survival instinct kicking in. She was put in a situation where she had to trust others and did so. I would hope something similar could happen for your rescue dog.
 
Ouch
im so sorry you got bitten but fireworks are just the worst thing
She's such a cute little thing
I wish her a happy loving life thanks to you
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It took a long time to befriend him and he needed a lot of food to fill him our
but now he is just a big bubdle of love and affection these days and most of the time very calm
 
I too have a DH who needs to watch me lest we end up with 1 million rescued creatures. I’ve been rescuing creatures since 3! I have too soft a heart to say no. Like DH coming home after a late dog walk and mentioning in passing that he saw a baby owl on the ground up at the park. WHAT. I was out the door with a torch and umbrella (it’s now dark and raining) and towel and cardboard box. Found the poor wee mite, popped it into the box bought it home, rang WIRES and gave it some raw mince. A few hours later a registered carer arrived and took it home to foster. Wee little thing was still all baby fluffy and must have fallen out of the next during big winds. 4 weeks later they rang to say it had been safely returned to the park, able to fly and care for itself.
 
@SandyinAnaheim - about 11 years ago (when my Quincy was 3) I took in an emergency foster, a sweet small white dog. Her name was Dubey and we renamed her Bebe. She had been abused and found in an abandoned, foreclosure house, eating mud and drinking muddy water. She was so dirty that they did not know she was white until she had been bathed. Her p, aw was broken when I took her in. Long story short, I ended up keeping Bebe because I knew she had already had such a life of hell and I knew that our family would see to it that the rest of her days were peaceful, full of love, warmth and good food! She was 2 - 3 years old at the time and hid under the bed and sofa for the first month and was terrified of my husband and son. Our son worked his pet magic on her and she was a lovely little thing until she passed about 1 year ago.
I am hoping that you can keep Molly with your pac. On another note, I do give monthly to Hope For Paws, what do you think of this organization? And again, thank you for loving Molly. We have a statue in our yard, St. Francis of Asisi, the Saint for animals. I always know that any animal that comes into our home will be looked over by St. Francis. You're a great lady!
 
@Queenie60 Hope for Paws is THE BEST!!!! BEST EVER IN SO CAL!!!!!! My Amazon Smile is directed to them. If I was independently wealthy, I would be working with them, and the Saving Huey Foundation. If I could afford it, my deepest calling would be to doing disaster relief. When I still lived in FL, I volunteered with the ASPCA doing horse rescues. It was SHOCKING how many people left their horses, tethered to a post, to starve to death, when they lost their homes due to the 2008 housing crisis. Not that I had any expectations that humans were anywhere near good, but I truly thought that people would save their animals....but they did not.
 
You're a miracle worker! So sorry about your paw. I hope you get it looked at and see if you need any shots. (Damn fireworks and bad timing!)
Look how cute she is now! Now she has the opportunity to be adopted and to have a happy, healthy life all thanks to your work!

Thank you @SandyinAnaheim for caring!
 
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