Millennistar
Rough_Rock
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- Apr 21, 2009
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I''ve hesitated to post this question, but after recent experiences I''ve had surveying different jewelers, I thought it would be helpful to take my concerns to other consumers on this forum -- in the hope of getting some honest feedback.
First, the background: I''m looking for a 2.25+ carat emerald, eye clean, that faces up white...on a tight budget (15K). However, when I engage with most jewelers (online and B&M), the first thing they tell me is that they aren''t going to look for anything below VS2 and below I in color. I next get a lecture on how important these two factors are for ECs, and finally a caveat that finding something with those specs within my budget is going to be really tough.
Out of five jewelers that I have spoken with over the past month, I''ve gotten the same lecture from four. However, the first jeweler I visited had three stones in for me to look at in one week (all GIAs). All faced up white (despite being K''s and J''s -- I was actually SHOCKED), and two were generally eye clean SI2''s! My experience with this first jeweler has made me doubt the claims of the subsequent jewelers -- that what I''m looking for can''t be found on my budget. Furthermore, my loose diamond searches among PS vendors yield promising results (albeit comparatively limited).
Now, the question: I understand that the VS clarity/I color parameter might be a "good rule of thumb", but I''m wondering why a majority of jewelers seem to stick to that so adamantly? Whatever happened to "working with the customer?" Why would a jeweler initially take SI''s off the table when a majority of diamonds that I''ve physically SEEN are SI''s and look fine to me? (After all, I''m going to be the one wearing it, not the jeweler).
My paranoid fear is that some jewelers (and by some I mean the majority of jewelers I''ve spoken with) will push uneducated customers toward higher color and clarity grades because it is more cost effective for them: The amount of time and money it takes (in terms of searching and shipping stones from the wholesaler) to find an eye clean, face-up-white stone is minimized if they only look at or above I/VS''s. Furthermore, it stands to reason that they would make more $ (if working on commission) by selling a higher quality stone -- since in general, a 2.5 I VS1 would probably cost more than a comparably cut 2.5 J SI1.
Can anyone here weigh in on why I keep getting this feedback from jewelers -- that they won'' t look below I or VS -- when I know for a fact there are eye-clean and white-enough diamonds out there with lower color and clarity grades?
I apologize for the long post -- but would sincerely appreciate your thoughts!
First, the background: I''m looking for a 2.25+ carat emerald, eye clean, that faces up white...on a tight budget (15K). However, when I engage with most jewelers (online and B&M), the first thing they tell me is that they aren''t going to look for anything below VS2 and below I in color. I next get a lecture on how important these two factors are for ECs, and finally a caveat that finding something with those specs within my budget is going to be really tough.
Out of five jewelers that I have spoken with over the past month, I''ve gotten the same lecture from four. However, the first jeweler I visited had three stones in for me to look at in one week (all GIAs). All faced up white (despite being K''s and J''s -- I was actually SHOCKED), and two were generally eye clean SI2''s! My experience with this first jeweler has made me doubt the claims of the subsequent jewelers -- that what I''m looking for can''t be found on my budget. Furthermore, my loose diamond searches among PS vendors yield promising results (albeit comparatively limited).
Now, the question: I understand that the VS clarity/I color parameter might be a "good rule of thumb", but I''m wondering why a majority of jewelers seem to stick to that so adamantly? Whatever happened to "working with the customer?" Why would a jeweler initially take SI''s off the table when a majority of diamonds that I''ve physically SEEN are SI''s and look fine to me? (After all, I''m going to be the one wearing it, not the jeweler).
My paranoid fear is that some jewelers (and by some I mean the majority of jewelers I''ve spoken with) will push uneducated customers toward higher color and clarity grades because it is more cost effective for them: The amount of time and money it takes (in terms of searching and shipping stones from the wholesaler) to find an eye clean, face-up-white stone is minimized if they only look at or above I/VS''s. Furthermore, it stands to reason that they would make more $ (if working on commission) by selling a higher quality stone -- since in general, a 2.5 I VS1 would probably cost more than a comparably cut 2.5 J SI1.
Can anyone here weigh in on why I keep getting this feedback from jewelers -- that they won'' t look below I or VS -- when I know for a fact there are eye-clean and white-enough diamonds out there with lower color and clarity grades?
I apologize for the long post -- but would sincerely appreciate your thoughts!