I hope it''s kosher for a guy to seek advice here. If not, feel free to give me the boot...
For about the past 2 months or so, I''ve given more and more thought about engagement, found PS, and my diamond and setting are paid for. The proposal is going to be a surprise. My ultimatum for the timing was before Feb. 13, 2008. I''ll be lucky if I can hold out until the end of April. But my gf has been getting mad that I''ve been talking about going ring shopping and says I''m just teasing her. It''s really just to throw her off. I don''t want her to think that I''ve been obsessing over this ring all this time, and I certainly don''t want her to know that it''s been ordered. Am I making a mistake? Should I just stop talking about it? I thought all you girls liked going into jewelry stores to look at rings. My gf gets uncomfortable when I lead salespeople on and then tell them I''m not ready to buy.
I''m also looking for any thoughts on my proposal ideas over in the forum of the same name.
For about the past 2 months or so, I''ve given more and more thought about engagement, found PS, and my diamond and setting are paid for. The proposal is going to be a surprise. My ultimatum for the timing was before Feb. 13, 2008. I''ll be lucky if I can hold out until the end of April. But my gf has been getting mad that I''ve been talking about going ring shopping and says I''m just teasing her. It''s really just to throw her off. I don''t want her to think that I''ve been obsessing over this ring all this time, and I certainly don''t want her to know that it''s been ordered. Am I making a mistake? Should I just stop talking about it? I thought all you girls liked going into jewelry stores to look at rings. My gf gets uncomfortable when I lead salespeople on and then tell them I''m not ready to buy.
I''m also looking for any thoughts on my proposal ideas over in the forum of the same name.
