My exact thoughts.@Susan Diamonds, I agree with the above. A few of my friends love jewelry and I can honestly say that our husbands probably don’t really get it but they love us and want to make us happy. Take your time and decide what will make you happy. Once you figure that out then discuss it with your husband. It is pointless to have endless conversations when you aren’t sure what you really want. I almost LOL when one of my friends husbands over dinner stated very matter of factly that until she knew what she really wanted there was no use in starting a price negotiation. Why begin negotiations on something you’re not even sure you want. Most men want to fix a problem and sometimes I think they don’t understand our indecisiveness while we figure it out. The hunt is half the fun. I have also learned when I tell my husband I really want something and it’s doable financially, he makes sure I get what I want. BUT I always pick out my jewelry. He wouldn’t want me picking out his golf clubs so he understands picking out my jewelry is important to me. Good luck on your search and ihope you find a ring that makes your heart sing.