Keepingthefaith21
Brilliant_Rock
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Hi everyone:
My shower is Sunday and I have been trying to plan out the travel logicstics with FI. As we were talking I started to wonder if it is necessary for him to make an appearance at the shower at all.
I''ve been to many showers where the FI is present but I wanted to keep the event a women only event. Initially FI was going to make an appearance at the end of the affair. The shower is quite a distance from our home - almost 2 hours away. I am on the fence regarding proper etiquette - is the man supposed to make an appearance at the shower?? I felt that because the shower was being thrown in my honor FI has no obligation to attend.
I''m fine with either scenario but wanted some opinions on what is considered proper.
Thanks!
My shower is Sunday and I have been trying to plan out the travel logicstics with FI. As we were talking I started to wonder if it is necessary for him to make an appearance at the shower at all.
I''ve been to many showers where the FI is present but I wanted to keep the event a women only event. Initially FI was going to make an appearance at the end of the affair. The shower is quite a distance from our home - almost 2 hours away. I am on the fence regarding proper etiquette - is the man supposed to make an appearance at the shower?? I felt that because the shower was being thrown in my honor FI has no obligation to attend.
I''m fine with either scenario but wanted some opinions on what is considered proper.
Thanks!