frenchfries
Rough_Rock
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- Oct 26, 2009
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I post here a lot, but this is so disturbing that I am using another name.
OK, I have had problems with my FMIL. I always knew that she was a little off her rocker-very possessive, really babies her sons. I was always a little weirded out by the way that she tickles/scratches my fiance, "walks in" with towels while he is showering, (no locks on either of her sons bedrooms or bathrooms even though they built the house and every other bedroom has them), she walks in dressing rooms with her boys, still buys my fiance his boxer shorts (a new pair is always laying on the bed when we come to visit), she has my fiance lay on her stomach to watch tv (she has huge breasts and they inevitably droop in his face), and about a year ago he had bad bugbites on his upper thigh, and she insisted on applying bug cream herself.
all of that is weird, but I thought-whatever, families are weird.
This past weekend, I learned that she wiped my fiance''s younger brother after he used the restroom until he was 10-12. I discussed it with my fiance and it never happened to him, thank goodness.
All I can think about is the future and how I will never be able to let our children be alone with her. I was disgusted and totally infuriated when I found out.
Oh, and this is another bit...Her husband works out of town, has during their entire marriage, and a family lives next door with 5 kids. All really adorable young boys and girls. She hates the girls and has the boys over, individually, for spend the night parties with her. Thinking about that after learning about the wiping makes me ill.
I just needed to vent.
OK, I have had problems with my FMIL. I always knew that she was a little off her rocker-very possessive, really babies her sons. I was always a little weirded out by the way that she tickles/scratches my fiance, "walks in" with towels while he is showering, (no locks on either of her sons bedrooms or bathrooms even though they built the house and every other bedroom has them), she walks in dressing rooms with her boys, still buys my fiance his boxer shorts (a new pair is always laying on the bed when we come to visit), she has my fiance lay on her stomach to watch tv (she has huge breasts and they inevitably droop in his face), and about a year ago he had bad bugbites on his upper thigh, and she insisted on applying bug cream herself.
all of that is weird, but I thought-whatever, families are weird.
This past weekend, I learned that she wiped my fiance''s younger brother after he used the restroom until he was 10-12. I discussed it with my fiance and it never happened to him, thank goodness.
All I can think about is the future and how I will never be able to let our children be alone with her. I was disgusted and totally infuriated when I found out.
Oh, and this is another bit...Her husband works out of town, has during their entire marriage, and a family lives next door with 5 kids. All really adorable young boys and girls. She hates the girls and has the boys over, individually, for spend the night parties with her. Thinking about that after learning about the wiping makes me ill.
I just needed to vent.