Not to worry. We won't steer you to a SharksRUs kind of shop!* * * A friend's uncle had a shop in the NYC daimond district, I spent a day in his shop 35 years ago and the business practices I saw in place that day still send chills down my spine. I realize most jewelers don't engage in those practices but I don't know how to separate the chaff from wheat.
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That parenthetical should be rubies don't pose the same concerns/risks when being set as do, e.g., sphenes. I didn't notice until now that the PS AutoSpell "corrected" sphenes to spheres.There are certainly people here in NYC who are "old hands" at setting colored gems (and rubies don't pose the same concerns/risks when being set as do, e.g., spheres).
I second Steven Kirsch, his work is beautiful and he is super easy to work with!