I’ve had the stone picked out for an engagement ring for a while now, and I have the setting narrowed down to 2 that are almost identical. The first one has milgrain and the second one doesn’t. I know it’s a subtle difference, but I’m certain she would prefer the second one. My only concern is that the jeweler said it would need to be modified to fit my stone..the other one wouldn’t, and I’m still waiting for a price quote on that. She said that they don’t modify beyond structural integrity, but I’m still not sure about getting a ring modified..is it a bad idea or am I just overthinking it? I really don’t know anything about jewelry so I wanted to rub it by you guys first. Thanks