I''ve just done an involuntary about-face on the whole engagement ring thing. It''s not that I don''t want one, I still do, and I''m still getting one -- just not a diamond.
My SO went to a bunch of jewelers and finally found one who treated him like the well-informed geek he is. Who doesn''t like being treated like they''re smart and want to know all the millions of little details about things?
(BTW, I believe he has now compiled quite a list of really skeevy, uninformed jewelers in Pittsburgh, which is really quite a pity.) He''s gotten quite impatient since we haven''t been able to find a diamond for so long (can''t blame him, can I?), and he saw at the jeweler what he calls a "stunning" sapphire. Of course, he couldn''t buy it, but she is bringing some other ones in for him. This sapphire was sufficently beautiful that as soon as he got home he called me up and said "don''t buy a diamond! you''re getting a sapphire!"
So now I''m new on the sapphire circuit, and I''m looking for "gotchas" that might trip him up, tips that I can pass on to him.
Thus far I have:
1. make sure it doesn''t have a window
2. check for colour zoning
is there anything else I should pass on to him? (I''m told that he''s looking for a 6mm-ish stone, to go with the Tacori setting we''ve already picked out)
PS. NiceIce has been incredibly helpful, and I wanted to point out that the reason I don''t have a diamond is because there wasn''t anything out there (Canadian) that fit my specs, not because of them. I really appreciate their help, my SO is just impatient after a few months
My SO went to a bunch of jewelers and finally found one who treated him like the well-informed geek he is. Who doesn''t like being treated like they''re smart and want to know all the millions of little details about things?

So now I''m new on the sapphire circuit, and I''m looking for "gotchas" that might trip him up, tips that I can pass on to him.
Thus far I have:
1. make sure it doesn''t have a window
2. check for colour zoning
is there anything else I should pass on to him? (I''m told that he''s looking for a 6mm-ish stone, to go with the Tacori setting we''ve already picked out)
PS. NiceIce has been incredibly helpful, and I wanted to point out that the reason I don''t have a diamond is because there wasn''t anything out there (Canadian) that fit my specs, not because of them. I really appreciate their help, my SO is just impatient after a few months
