I took my SO to check out the antique ring I liked last night. From the look on his face, to the look of the ring on my finger, to the way the woman spoke to us, everything just was not working right. The SA i went to before wasnt there and I thought this one was HORRIBLE. I was so upset I felt like I was going to cry. Especially since the ring I was looking at just wasn''t beautiful to me any more when I felt that we weren''t really in agreement.
When we left the store my SO told me something along the lines of, purelily, I know you were looking at these rings b/c they are in our budget. But I don''t know if i''d buy them and I think you don''t really want to either.
Then, he went on to say that he will get me the ring of my dreams (sans budget) when we could afford it, and that this was a temporary thing.
I think he knows me too well. In a way, I was excited about finding a good deal with the ring I tried on, but in actuality is it a deal if I''m constantly thinking "this is temporary until the upgrade?"
We had thought of getting engaged without a ring before I decided to go hunting for an antique ring, but I had thought that an antique would be perfect and would fit our budget perfectly. However, maybe its because I''m not patient enough or i''m tired of hunting or maybe its because its important to me that we agree on a setting, I''m going to go back to our original plan and agree with him that we should hold out till we can find "the one".
Problem is, its waay to stressful for me. So, maybe i''ll just leave it up to him again.
When we left the store my SO told me something along the lines of, purelily, I know you were looking at these rings b/c they are in our budget. But I don''t know if i''d buy them and I think you don''t really want to either.
Then, he went on to say that he will get me the ring of my dreams (sans budget) when we could afford it, and that this was a temporary thing.
I think he knows me too well. In a way, I was excited about finding a good deal with the ring I tried on, but in actuality is it a deal if I''m constantly thinking "this is temporary until the upgrade?"
We had thought of getting engaged without a ring before I decided to go hunting for an antique ring, but I had thought that an antique would be perfect and would fit our budget perfectly. However, maybe its because I''m not patient enough or i''m tired of hunting or maybe its because its important to me that we agree on a setting, I''m going to go back to our original plan and agree with him that we should hold out till we can find "the one".
Problem is, its waay to stressful for me. So, maybe i''ll just leave it up to him again.