dec2410
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Sep 5, 2007
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did any of you ladies run into a rut in your relationships around the three year mark? my bf and i seem to be going through a rough patch. this is the longest relationship i''ve been in, so i don'' tknow if this is normal. he''s been in long term relationships before (3 years+) and he makes it seem like a little friction at this point in a relationship is normal.
we''ve both relatively passive people so we don''t fight a lot, and neither of us are very argumentative. more recently, we''ve both been super busy, so seeing each other seems to be a little difficult. i don''t know. things just seem off. we''ve talked about it, but nothing changes...i feel like i''m holding almost all of the weight in this relationship and he''s complacent. i''ve asked him if he still wants to be in this relationship, he said..."if you even have to ask that question, i must be doing something terribly wrong...yes i want to be in this relationship." i''m not 100% convinced....
HELP!!!
we''ve both relatively passive people so we don''t fight a lot, and neither of us are very argumentative. more recently, we''ve both been super busy, so seeing each other seems to be a little difficult. i don''t know. things just seem off. we''ve talked about it, but nothing changes...i feel like i''m holding almost all of the weight in this relationship and he''s complacent. i''ve asked him if he still wants to be in this relationship, he said..."if you even have to ask that question, i must be doing something terribly wrong...yes i want to be in this relationship." i''m not 100% convinced....
HELP!!!
