So as some of you might know from my previous post my FH and I are currently living with my parents. My parents had given us their house and were planning on moving into their new house during the summer. Our wedding was planned for New Years Eve. Well... that didn't happen and their house is still under construction so at the moment we are stuck living with my parents. My FH and I are both full time students. I am in grad school, doctorate program, and FH is finishing up his BA. At first I honestly didn't mind living with my parents except for the fact that FH and I were sleeping in separate rooms (their house, their rules). But lately I have had enough. Because of the house situation our wedding was postponed, which was beyond frustrating. And now I feel like the situation is constantly deteriorating. My FH and I to do everything: cook, clean, drive them groceries, help them with everything, even stuff they could easily do on their own, laundry, etc. We even do stuff for them that in no way should apply for us. I fill like their are just using us at this point. My mom is constantly complaining about my FH, for not being available to do stuff my dad should be doing for her. My father was never a mans man like my fh is, and so she, my mom, has him doing everything she wished my dad would have done throughout the years and gets frustrated when she doesn't see him doing something she wants him to do at that very second, even if he is busy doing hw or studying for a test. Although I am busy with my doctorate program I am constantly in the kitchen cooking for 4 (instead of 2) every night and doing the dishes six times a day, since my parents never put their dishes in the dishwasher anymore, even after they have seen me unloading them. I know when we are on our own will have to do all these things ourselves anyway, which is fine, but I find it so frustrating that we are constantly catering to them even though we have our own lives, and that my mom is continuously bad mouthing my FH for no reason. It would be different if my parents worked and contributed but they don't I'm just so frustrated. Honestly they treat us like we are 14. We do more around the house and for the household than they do. Too add to everything I had a miscarriage over a year and halfand go ( my parents don't know about it) and after going through such and emotionally difficult situation both my FH and I are ready to start ttc next fall, put all those plans while become irrelevant if we are still stuck here in this hell hole with my parents. Advice please!