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Ideal_Rock
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So, it''s been a helluva week for my DD and her new month old. We discovered that the baby has an umbilical cord hernia. The thing keeps popping out and causing bleeding so the Peditrician asks her to come in today. The night before last my DD was up all night with a throbbing index finger because she was chewing on a hang nail. The following day, she woke up and it was swollen and filled with pus.
She is only 4 weeks post partum and breastfeeding so she cant'' take antibiotics. She gets the baby all geared up, shleps up her four flights of stairs and get to the doctors office yesterday for her finger. I tell her to demand a MSRA culture as she has a newborn and it was too freaky for her finger to swell like that overnight. The doctor told her she would have to go to the hospital ER if she wanted a culture.
She goes to the ER which is full of hacking, dirty, sick people so the hospital staff gives my daughter a surgical mask and she covers the baby and calls DH to come get the baby away from all the sick people. She ends up having to have the finger lanced, cultured and drained. The inserted a wick and wanted to see her back today.
So, the baby''s appt was this morning with the Peditrician. DD gets baby ready, schleps up her three flights of stairs, can''t find parking and has to walk several blocks to the Peditricians office with the baby carrier and the office staff tells my daughter that her insurance won''t authorize the visit. They say that the insurance company states that since my daughter had the baby on 9/23/09 she is covered for one month under the Mom and then extended under that same coverage until the 1st day or the following month, which is Nov. 1. Would have been nice to know that before my daughter went through hell to get there. She is still recovering from a 4th degree tear of the perineum. Anyway, my daughter gets on the phone with the insurance company rep and tells her that the baby needs to be seen. They tell my DD that she can take the baby to an Urgent Care and it will be covered, or take the baby to and ER or my daughter''s doctor and they will cover it. Which is stupid, because it will cost more. So my daughter just leaves with an appt for Monday.
Then she has to go back to see the ER doc for the follow up on her finger since she can''t take antibiotics. I tell her to call the ER and confirm that the same doctor is working today and what her shift time is so my daughter doesn''t miss her and can minimize the time she has to sit in the ER and get exposed to H1N1 since she has a newborn. The ER clerk responds with major attitude and tells my daughter that she is not going to give my daughter the doctor''s schedule and that many doctors don''t work every day and that she shouldn''t expect to be seen by the same doctor. My daughter was so exhausted that she didn''t have the fight in her to confront the cranky clerk who didn''t need to give her an education on the workings of an ER. The same doctor either was or wasn''t there and she should have answered my daughter. Needless to say, my daughter refused to go get her finger checked. I just want to whip a can of whoopass on everyone involved right now. But I sit here praying that they will both be okay.
I hate our system. Where is our humanity and common sense and pride in our jobs?
She is only 4 weeks post partum and breastfeeding so she cant'' take antibiotics. She gets the baby all geared up, shleps up her four flights of stairs and get to the doctors office yesterday for her finger. I tell her to demand a MSRA culture as she has a newborn and it was too freaky for her finger to swell like that overnight. The doctor told her she would have to go to the hospital ER if she wanted a culture.
She goes to the ER which is full of hacking, dirty, sick people so the hospital staff gives my daughter a surgical mask and she covers the baby and calls DH to come get the baby away from all the sick people. She ends up having to have the finger lanced, cultured and drained. The inserted a wick and wanted to see her back today.
So, the baby''s appt was this morning with the Peditrician. DD gets baby ready, schleps up her three flights of stairs, can''t find parking and has to walk several blocks to the Peditricians office with the baby carrier and the office staff tells my daughter that her insurance won''t authorize the visit. They say that the insurance company states that since my daughter had the baby on 9/23/09 she is covered for one month under the Mom and then extended under that same coverage until the 1st day or the following month, which is Nov. 1. Would have been nice to know that before my daughter went through hell to get there. She is still recovering from a 4th degree tear of the perineum. Anyway, my daughter gets on the phone with the insurance company rep and tells her that the baby needs to be seen. They tell my DD that she can take the baby to an Urgent Care and it will be covered, or take the baby to and ER or my daughter''s doctor and they will cover it. Which is stupid, because it will cost more. So my daughter just leaves with an appt for Monday.
Then she has to go back to see the ER doc for the follow up on her finger since she can''t take antibiotics. I tell her to call the ER and confirm that the same doctor is working today and what her shift time is so my daughter doesn''t miss her and can minimize the time she has to sit in the ER and get exposed to H1N1 since she has a newborn. The ER clerk responds with major attitude and tells my daughter that she is not going to give my daughter the doctor''s schedule and that many doctors don''t work every day and that she shouldn''t expect to be seen by the same doctor. My daughter was so exhausted that she didn''t have the fight in her to confront the cranky clerk who didn''t need to give her an education on the workings of an ER. The same doctor either was or wasn''t there and she should have answered my daughter. Needless to say, my daughter refused to go get her finger checked. I just want to whip a can of whoopass on everyone involved right now. But I sit here praying that they will both be okay.
I hate our system. Where is our humanity and common sense and pride in our jobs?