makewayhomer
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- May 12, 2010
- Messages
- 18
Well, I ordered a loose diamond from an online vendor, it arrived today, and I'm not happy with it. I am spending a decent chunk ($10k) so this is unacceptable to me. I need to find a diamond I love.
my gf just turned 30, and we are going to Paris in 5 days. This trip was her Xmas present from me. We have talked about the future, and my guess is she is expecting a proposal when we are there.
the trouble is now timing. I stupidly procrastinated, didn't leave time for a bad diamond selection, and now I'm not sure there is time to find a suitable diamond/ring. I am going shopping tomorrow to some legit places, so there is a chance I will find something I love.
but what if I don't? given my circumstances, it ok to propose with an alternate/birthstone ring and go ring shopping with her afterwards?
the other alternative is to just be up front with her: tell her I planned to have a ring by now, but I haven't found one I liked, and the big question will be coming soon...
my gf just turned 30, and we are going to Paris in 5 days. This trip was her Xmas present from me. We have talked about the future, and my guess is she is expecting a proposal when we are there.
the trouble is now timing. I stupidly procrastinated, didn't leave time for a bad diamond selection, and now I'm not sure there is time to find a suitable diamond/ring. I am going shopping tomorrow to some legit places, so there is a chance I will find something I love.
but what if I don't? given my circumstances, it ok to propose with an alternate/birthstone ring and go ring shopping with her afterwards?
the other alternative is to just be up front with her: tell her I planned to have a ring by now, but I haven't found one I liked, and the big question will be coming soon...