by Prana » Oct 21, 2012 I'm actually a very jolly, happy and lucky pregnant lady, so the title might be misleading. But I'm wondering if these feelings I'm having are normal... I get really angry when people are insistent that they KNOW our baby's gender. My DH and I are team green. We don't know what we are having. I don't get angry when people say that they think it's one or the other, I find it cute and I like to hear why they feel it's a girl or a boy. However, my SIL, her mother and her sister are very direct with their assumptions. They'll say things like "Oh those are HER feet you feel there." Or they'll look at me and say "Yeah, that's a girl. Mmm hmm. Yup." Or "How is baby girl doing today?" Or... "Oh yeah, your face has changed and you're drained around your eyes. Not saying you look like sh*t, but that means you're having a girl." It makes me so so so SO angry! I've thought a lot about it and I think I get so angry because it feels very invasive to me. I don't like the way that they think they know it all. And If I have a girl and one of them says "I told you so!" I seriously think I might lose it on them. Seriously. I guess I just find them and their assumptions to be extremely intrusive. I would love a little girl so much, but I'm almost wishing for a boy just to prove them wrong And that's not my personality at all! I normally don't care what people think. I've learned to take people's body criticisms with a grain of salt. I put more energy into thinking about all the positive things people tell me and consider the source when people tell me how huge I am or ask me for the 900th time if I'm sure I'm not carrying twins. Hardy HAR!! I havent' heard that one yeT!! What comments made you seethe when you were pregnant?