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Date: 3/10/2010 11:22:12 AM
Author: dreamer_d
Based on my personal experience visit-ng jewelry stores, and granted it is not universal, I would also put the term ''experts'' in quotations to refer to most proprietors. Some seemed like experts, surely, but the majority did not. And it had nothing to do with using or not using modern technology. It had to do with their apparent ignorance of simple matters, or, if not ignorance, then blatant misleading of customers. I think that the jewelers I have met have been experts in sales, but certainly not in diamonds or in customer service. If that is overly general, so be it. I am a ''just'' a consumer and that''s how I see things.![]()
DD, you are correct.
If we use averages, most of the people who are behind jewelry counters are not experts in diamonds. Additionally, many are prone to use falsehoods to try and convince consumers to buy.
Here''s the rub- generalizations are akin to bigotry.
Did ( insert your favorite disgraced well known person here) do ( insert the bad act which was splashed across the newspaper) because he was a slimeball- or a ( insert the person''s race, religion, or profession here)?
Hopefully we can all agree that the person''s race, religion, or profession have no place in identifying why they behaved badly.
I know what I teach my son- a person''s acts should not be associated with the group they belong to.
One of the great results of this , and other sites that educate consumers, is that it gives consumers power to better understand who is actually an expert, and who is peeing on their leg and telling them it''s raining.
However just because someone is standing behind a jewelry counter , that does not make them a "fake" expert by virtue of that fact alone.
Paul- I am very glad to have this dialog- I''ve been thinking about your point and will respond later....