please help- or i might go into preterm labor

imoutnumbered · Nov 4, 2011

i have a beautiful wedding set custom made, however, after 2.5 kids (im pregnant with #3 and last), i gained weight in my hands. and due to the custom shank i have to have it completely remade instead of sized (lesson learned). Also husband upgraded my diamond three years ago, so i have been wearing a 1ct solitare with a plain band until we could afford to remake my wedding set. so here we are, looking at new wedding sets. but we have a unique issue. my mother gave me diamonds, 44 small ones that were used to create the original set (which is why it was custom made to begin with). so we have 44 small diamonds and 1 3/8 and 1 1ct. diamond to use. i have been talking with our jewlery back home about our options. she has been working with me over the internet for three weeks now and we finally settled on a e-ring setting and a wedding band. but husband and i are not happy with the band option. no matter the band, the rings will set apart and not be flush due to the head we are putting on the e-ring band. what do you suggest for a band? dh likes a matchy matchy enhancer/wrap, and i dont. i idealy would like a thicker wedding band, but not the one we have chosen right now. the online online site that our jewler can have me see (otherwise she is pulling from books in the store) is unique settings of new york.