gailrmv
Ideal_Rock
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I agree with TGal's calculations based on my experiences so far.
A great way to save money is breastfeed (assuming you are able to - and I would recommend reading a good book or two on breastfeeding before you have the baby to help you get off to the best start possible). I was talking to a guy today who said he was spending over $700/month on formula!!
Childcare is a HUGE expense. In fact, figuring out what I'd really be taking home after taxes, commuting and childcare costs helped me to figure out that it was worth it to be a SAHM for a while.
I also agree with TGal, we don't go out as often and I don't shop much for myself at all anymore, so that saves $.
We were lucky to be able to borrow lots of things from friends. I hope to return the favor and loan the things we bought to friends in the future. Also, less stuff to store that way. Some friends have gotten great deals at consignment stores and sales and craigslist. I'd say not to buy something unless you are sure you'll need it, and look for things that do double duty (to save money as well as space). Example: we have a swing/bouncer combo (borrowed). Pack-n-play that also works for changing table. I bought a cute diaper bag, but as it turns out it's just as easy to carry any tote bag with a changing pad.
I also have found that lots of stores send out coupons on their email list. I go to the Carters Outlet using one of their many 20% off coupons, and I've bought tons of adorable, functional clothes for CHEAP.
Kids are expensive though, no matter what!
A great way to save money is breastfeed (assuming you are able to - and I would recommend reading a good book or two on breastfeeding before you have the baby to help you get off to the best start possible). I was talking to a guy today who said he was spending over $700/month on formula!!
Childcare is a HUGE expense. In fact, figuring out what I'd really be taking home after taxes, commuting and childcare costs helped me to figure out that it was worth it to be a SAHM for a while.
I also agree with TGal, we don't go out as often and I don't shop much for myself at all anymore, so that saves $.
We were lucky to be able to borrow lots of things from friends. I hope to return the favor and loan the things we bought to friends in the future. Also, less stuff to store that way. Some friends have gotten great deals at consignment stores and sales and craigslist. I'd say not to buy something unless you are sure you'll need it, and look for things that do double duty (to save money as well as space). Example: we have a swing/bouncer combo (borrowed). Pack-n-play that also works for changing table. I bought a cute diaper bag, but as it turns out it's just as easy to carry any tote bag with a changing pad.
I also have found that lots of stores send out coupons on their email list. I go to the Carters Outlet using one of their many 20% off coupons, and I've bought tons of adorable, functional clothes for CHEAP.
Kids are expensive though, no matter what!