Impudent_Crumpet|1357185381|3346057 said:I'm pretty sure his mom + my mom would get in so much mischief.
madelise|1357184689|3346052 said:◉ Are your parents still together? Are his parents still together?
◉ Has any of this had any impact on your views on engagement and marriage?
◉ Have you met his parents? Has he met yours? Have they met each other?
mandasand|1357221822|3346191 said:madelise|1357184689|3346052 said:I think the divorce rate nowadays has to do with the "disposable" society we live in. If you don't like your job, get a new one. If you don't like your car, buy a new one. If you don't like your partner, go find a new one. REAL commitment is lacking in society now.
princesss|1357223209|3346206 said:most of his friends that are in relationships have been with their significant other for 5-10+ years with no marriage or engagement, and several of them have babies together, so he thinks of marriage as a little more optional than I do.
madelise|1357242377|3346532 said:I'm so glad that most of you who have had parents that split, report that they've found lifelong partners in other people. I'm not anti-divorce whatsoever. In fact, this actually gave me hope that the divorce isn't just some super negative, vindictive cheating situation or screwing each other over situation… My screwed up little head automatically goes, "SOMEONE CHEATED" whenever someone divorces, but that's not true at all.
Thank you for sharing It's helped me become less anti-divorce.
madelise|1357242197|3346529 said:princesss|1357223209|3346206 said:most of his friends that are in relationships have been with their significant other for 5-10+ years with no marriage or engagement, and several of them have babies together, so he thinks of marriage as a little more optional than I do.
I see a lot of that.. I think it's more common in Europe than here in the US, no? Maybe religion has something to do with the social acceptance or demand of marriage?
Impudent_Crumpet|1357185381|3346057 said:Both sets of parents are still together
madelise|1357213840|3346130 said:Impudent_Crumpet|1357185381|3346057 said:I'm pretty sure his mom + my mom would get in so much mischief.
LOL! ooooh what kind of mischief!
madelise|1357184689|3346052 said:◉ Are your parents still together? Are his parents still together?
◉ Has any of this had any impact on your views on engagement and marriage?
◉ Have you met his parents? Has he met yours? Have they met each other?
advokait|1358010381|3353866 said:I've met his parents, he's met mine, and they've all met each other. They all get along just fine. that intentionally rhymes!
madelise|1357184689|3346052 said:◉ Are your parents still together? Are his parents still together?
◉ Has any of this had any impact on your views on engagement and marriage?
◉ Have you met his parents? Has he met yours? Have they met each other?