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I'm very unsure whether or not she'll like this. It's not the type of ring I imagined I would end up getting. I have a large dose of buyer's remorse and I couldn't fall asleep until 4AM last night thinking about it. It's apparently a Simon G (not sure if that means much) and I found that it is model # LP1145. Part of a set, but the jeweler apparently didn't have the matching band.

The appraisal sheet says things that I do not understand:
1-LDS platinum
Simon G designer mounting
.55ct oval diamond center (I couldn't afford much more with this band)
.36ct-twt sapphires
.26ct-twt small diamonds in the mounting
center D-E VS2


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Honestly, I think it''s absolutely beautiful. I have no idea what your lady''s taste is, but I love the setting, and I love ovals. It''s classy but still a bit understated--I think that''s a good thing and I can''t imagine anyone not liking it.
 
Thanks! I thought no one was going to respond. The people I've shown it to in person have liked it. I sent photos to some friends and they don't seem to like it. I'm not sure if people are trying to be nice or if it looks different when you can hold it in front of you.

I couldn't get the img tags to work on the above post. Here's one photo. Another question I have is whether I can tell if it's authentic, since one selling point was that it is a Simon G design? The diamonds embedded in the setting are much smaller than the stock photos... can these be replaced?

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It''s very pretty, lovely
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I love this ring! The sapphires on the side are great and I love the milgrain!

It''s a beautiful ring, I hope she likes it too!
 
i think it''s gorgeous!
 
I love it! But then it is just my style
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I have seen a similar Simon G setting but with diamond pears instead of the sapphires. I would say relax and trust your gut on whether or not your GF will like the ring. I am betting she says yes
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aww, i think it''s a beautiful ring. the band design is so intricate, and i love how you combined an oval shaped center stone with pear sapphire - the ring looks very sophisticated and unique. however, you know your ff better than you, and if you don''t think she''ll love it, perhaps go back to the jeweler and talk about what you were expecting. i''m sure they can work something out with you. best of luck!!
 
Love love love it!!! Sapphires are so classy!
 
It's very pretty, but to be sure... I would give it to her within the return policy period of the store and tell her that you want her to be happy, and if she doesn't love it you both can shop together for something more suited to her tastes.

It really just depends on your lady. It does look like a pretty oval, and I like the shank. Head seems to sit a little high from the pics and the angle, so that could be why it shows better in person than in pics. And yes, since you have bought a very emotional item, people are not going to be rude to your face so if you have doubts, just make sure you've got the return policy so you can excercise it if she prefers something different.

D-E VS for the center stone... the center wasn't certified? Um... wanna share what you paid? Just for us to be sure you got a good deal?
 
I think if you have doubts, then see if you can return it for a refund or credit. The shop should be accommodating as its still brand new etc.

My concern is that you bought it in a moment of weakness (we all do that sometimes
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) you dont love it or even think it reflects your taste, plus your girlfriend has also had no input.

For your piece of mind go back to the store and try to see what options you have. Mind you, your ff might love it....but just incase make sure you can change it if need be.
 
Firstly, what's the stores return policy? If you propse when it can still be returned or exchanged if she's not so keen you can choose somthing together.

What is your gfs usual jewlery style? Does she like intricate antique looking jewelry? What kind of jewlery does she wear alot or choose for herself? If your still not sure, what about showing her best friend and asking if she thinks your gf will like it?

Personally I think the setting is beautiful and I'm definatly not into the antique looking rings usually. The pears are lovely and make this look so classic. From the photos I agree with Gypsy, I think the oval is set a little high but it may just be the photos.

If all else fails and your gut feeling says she'll hate it, then exchange it for somthing you know she'll like.
 
I think its stunning! And absolutely something I would buy, but that fits within my tastes. I love the sapphires, the milgrain is gorgeous! I would propose and just ask her..............
 
It''s lovely!!!!!
 
I think it''s very beautiful and special looking - I would propose with it!!
 
I LOVE the setting but I am a sapphire girl. My e-ring has sapphire accents and I LOVE the fact I have never seen anyone with the same ring as me. I am sure they are out there but it is an unique setting.
 
It looks great to me. It really depends on your gf''s tastes though, and whether or not she has something specific in mind.
 
very beautiful, yes, agree with others, propose within the return period just to be on the safe side, especially if you didn''t pick up on exactly what she wants.
 
I really love it! Good pick. As others have said, might not be a bad idea to propose within the #-day return period, just for your own peace of mind.
 
I think it''s absolutely beautiful -- antique and modern at the same time, and a very striking design.

What other posters have suggested about proposing within the return period is wise, but it''s a gorgeous ring.
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It''s a beautiful ring! And there is nothing wqrong with a .55 ct stone, don''t feel like you have to apologize for that! I''m sure she will love it!
 
That ring is absolutely gorgeous! I would not worry about a thing, it is a beautiful, classic setting. I adore the sapphires as accents too!
 
That is a gorgeous ring. I wouldn''t worry about what others think because it''s the ring YOU picked out and the meaning is private between you and your SO. Don''t let others'' comments keep you up at night.
 
I think it''s beautiful but I agree that I would propose during the return period just in case. Good luck
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I think it is beautiful! Very classy and antique looking. What sort of jewelry does your gf usually wear? Keep us updated on what you decide. In terms of not having a matching band, you and your gf can look for a wedding band together. It''s fun to try different things on and surprising what looks good together. I can imagine a delicate sapphire and diamond milgrain band going really well with it. Sometimes I have short lived buyers remorse on larger ticket items even when I was convinced it was what I wanted. Usually it goes away. Don''t worry, she will love it.
 
I think it is beautiful! It looks like a heirloom piece you could have inherited. I adore pieces like that! I agree with the other posters though, if you aren''t certain she will adore it ask her during the return time or as the store if you ask her after if you can exchange it for something she will love.
 
beautiful design!
 
I thought you did well as it''s a very pretty ring and I love it especially the shank and sapphire milgrained bezel. I''ve always been fond of ovals but the first thought was marquise base on the pictures. The oval wasn''t obvious to me so I may tweak the head design a bit. This is my opinion if it''s given to me (I wish my DH would though
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Having said that.... everyone''s taste is different and what matters most is your FI to be loves it. I agree with the rest that you should propose within the return policy (assuming there is one).

Like what 4ever had suggested, you may want to ask her best friend what she/he thinks. It really depends on her taste in jewelry and style.

I am one who thinks that you should propose with a ring that you like as well and are pretty sure that you lady likes it too. If you are that unsure, the "battle" is kind of half lost.

Goodluck and do keep us posted!
 
Looks pretty!
 
I think it is pretty and very antique looking.

If you are shocked that you bought it you may need to return it and think about it. Or think about it for a while. What has shocked you about it?

You say you couldn''t afford a bigger center stone due to the cost of the setting. Did you plan on getting her a larger center stone? Will she expect a larger center stone? Do the friends that you sent photos to have larger center stones or simple solitares?

What types of erings do the people you and your FF hang out with have? Did this color your idea of what you would get?

HTH
 
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