ok, here''s my huge dilema. My boyfriend and I have been living together for a few months now, and have been planning on marriage. The anniversary of our first date is in 3 weeks, and we always do something a little special for it. This year, he has been very secretive about the plans. I was cleaning our apartment this weekend, and found a ring box hidden with our ski equipment that I was packing away. I didn''t open it, but it is now haunting me, I don''t want to ruin the surprise, so I''m not going to look, but I want to have him move it, so I don''t know where it is, that way it won''t be so tempting. How do I tell him, or should I keep it to myself, so as to not make him feel bad. (The latter would take so much willpower!!!) but I think I could do it for a few weeks.