Sparklelu
Brilliant_Rock
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My parents paid way back in 1979 and we were planng on and kinda saving for my DD. I always told her give me a years notice and we would be good.
This may sound harsh to some, but when my DD announced she was pregnant after being engaged for only 2 months I told her if they got married before the baby we would do our best to pay. If they waited till after because she wanted to be a skinny bride, it was on them . I figured if they we old enough to start a family they were old enough to pay their bills. They were actually fine with it.
I also knew that once the baby came and life and all its complications and expenses a weding would be way down on the list.
We had lovely ceremony and reception on the beach here in Florida at sunset for 100 people. We paid for everything, invites, reception, DJ, photographer, well actually we ended up getting reimbursed for the entire photography package because the potographer used a photo of them at sunset as an ad and on the side of a bus!
I did a candy table and DIY table decor as well as bags for guests from out of town. They coverd the liquor after 4 hours, the rings. As forthe dress, her god mother bought that . I'm not sure why parents would pay for the rings anyway. I kind of figure they are a gift from the Bride to groom and vice versa.
Now 4 years later with baby 2 on the way, buying a house and all the other junk that goes with life, she says it was the best way to do it. They had a beautiful wedding, wonderful memories and life is good!
This may sound harsh to some, but when my DD announced she was pregnant after being engaged for only 2 months I told her if they got married before the baby we would do our best to pay. If they waited till after because she wanted to be a skinny bride, it was on them . I figured if they we old enough to start a family they were old enough to pay their bills. They were actually fine with it.
I also knew that once the baby came and life and all its complications and expenses a weding would be way down on the list.
We had lovely ceremony and reception on the beach here in Florida at sunset for 100 people. We paid for everything, invites, reception, DJ, photographer, well actually we ended up getting reimbursed for the entire photography package because the potographer used a photo of them at sunset as an ad and on the side of a bus!
I did a candy table and DIY table decor as well as bags for guests from out of town. They coverd the liquor after 4 hours, the rings. As forthe dress, her god mother bought that . I'm not sure why parents would pay for the rings anyway. I kind of figure they are a gift from the Bride to groom and vice versa.
Now 4 years later with baby 2 on the way, buying a house and all the other junk that goes with life, she says it was the best way to do it. They had a beautiful wedding, wonderful memories and life is good!