wildcat03
Brilliant_Rock
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- Apr 11, 2011
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I've been dating a great guy for the last 8 months. After years of dating guys where the relationships were dead ends, I was thrilled to meet him. He is kind, attentive, caring, and treats me so well. After dating for months and several events transpiring that made me sure, I told him I loved him (and I do!). And then I waited, and waited, and waited. And he hasn't said it back. At first I put it aside. I had no reason to doubt that it would come. But it's been a while now, and he hasn't said it. Finally I couldn't take it anymore and brought it up. He told me that he just couldn't say it. The implication being (I guess) that he just doesn't feel it - although he never said that. While all of this is going on, he is currently job hunting. Back when we first met, he had planned to move several thousand miles away. Because of me, he shelved that plan and is staying here. I never asked him to do this, he decided it all on his own. When we talked yesterday, I suggested he expand his search to include that original city, as I didn't want to be the one who held him back. His response, "You are more important to me than living in [city] or any other potential move."
Ladies, I am totally lost here. Here's a (great, amazing, wonderful) guy who I'm completely head over heels for who is staying here because I'm anchored here and yet he can't tell me he loves me. I feel so lost.
Ladies, I am totally lost here. Here's a (great, amazing, wonderful) guy who I'm completely head over heels for who is staying here because I'm anchored here and yet he can't tell me he loves me. I feel so lost.