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Ideal_Rock
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Recently, after 12 years of marriage, I suddenly can't stand my husband's complaining negative ways. Now he has always had a tendency to be a perfectionist. But believe me, had he been whiner way back when there is no way I would have married that. Can you tell I'm having a had week?
I just can't stand his freaking wining anymore. Big things, little things, everything and nothing. I even asked him if he is depressed and thinks he wants to see someone. Our son is in therapy so there is no stigma in our family. I even went to therapy after my dad died a few years ago because I could not move past the grief on my own.
How do you deal with people who constantly I even suggested joint counseling because he is draining ME with his negativity.
Ironically I realize this thread is complaining about my husband.
I just can't stand his freaking wining anymore. Big things, little things, everything and nothing. I even asked him if he is depressed and thinks he wants to see someone. Our son is in therapy so there is no stigma in our family. I even went to therapy after my dad died a few years ago because I could not move past the grief on my own.
How do you deal with people who constantly I even suggested joint counseling because he is draining ME with his negativity.
Ironically I realize this thread is complaining about my husband.