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Rough_Rock
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- Apr 12, 2012
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texaskj|1369706300|3454819 said:I'm going to say the same thing I told Niel in another thread:
Break your give-a-shitter.
It's nobody's business what jewelry you wear. I knew a woman who wore a fairly large engagement ring on each ring finger. One had been her mother's and she said she loved both rings so much she just wore both every day. When anyone gave her a hard time she asked them why they cared.
I'm in love with this and it has made my day!
In all honestly, it seems that most people assume I'm married any way, so I don't know how much difference a ring is going to make.
3 recent examples.
- I recently went to Vegas for a weekend getaway. I was purchasing a ticket to a show and the teller says, "Do you need a ticket for your husband?" Keep in mind, I'm standing in front of this person alone.
- My air conditioning broke last week and the HVAC guy comes out and tells me I probably need a new unit but I should talk it over with my husband first and let him know what we want to do.
- I'm in the process of building a house and there have been numerous incidents but most recently I was picking out carpet and hardwood. I found something I liked and my interior designer says "Well take a sample home and have your husband take a look at it and see if he likes it." My response, "I don't have a husband." Blank stare from her for about 20 seconds then she says, oh sorry I just assumed.
I really do appreciate everyone's responses and while there is a part of me that does care what others think, this part is trumped by my inner voice that's telling me "F it, you've worked your ass off, you want a ring, you can buy the ring and every time you look at it it'll make you happy. So screw it."
So I got official word that the bonus I was expecting is coming through, so now I'm officially diamond hunting and obsessively looking at settings trying to put together a design that'll make me happy but won't be too engagment-y. Yay!