Ok - ring purchased. Blessing from parents received. Plans all set for proposal. I had planned to do it very soon, on a special day for us. What I didn''t plan for is a "minor" medical issue that has led my GF''s left hand to be swollen/black and blue. Her arm is also in a wrap. It likely won''t be healed before the day arrives. Should I scrap my plans and wait? She has no idea about anything. Advice?