londonblue
Shiny_Rock
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hello,
I''m in the process of building an ering for the love of my life
I''ve read just about every old thread on here about sapphires and rings but am always surprised by hot few hits always turn up related to sapphires and rings.
Anyway, we both like sapphires and have been admiring the sapphires that are listed on cherrypicked for the past few years or so. But it seems that despite all my research I still have many questions I was hoping some of you could help me out with.
She''s afraid that the durability of a sapphire doesn''t compare to a diamond and will not wear well. One of her friends wanted to get a emerald cut sapphire for her ring, but was told by the jewelry store that the cut has a great risk of chipping and persuaded her friend to get an oval shape instead.
Another friend of hers bought a sapphire ring at an antiques shop only to have it scratched up, I believe it was the table most probably. She brought it back in for them to repolish it which they did but told her that because it was a sapphire it would no doubt happen again and be easily scratched up. She upgraded her ring to an antique diamond ring instead at the shop. So my gf has a perception that sapphires are easily scratched by everyday wear, is that the case? I personally think it''s just the shops looking to make a larger profit as I''ve never been to impressed by the knowledge of most jewelry store salespersons.
I''ve also told her that sapphires are the second hardest natural mineral after diamonds, and although diamonds are 4 times harder, the ones that are between 9 and 10 on moh''s scale are manmade diamond simulants. While sapphires may scratch, don''t diamonds chip more easily due to their perfect cleavage?
We both really like sapphires, but it''s mostly just a durability issue. She''d also like to never have to take her ring off although I worry that that seems like an unneccesary risk - ie. stone pops out in the shower, washes down the sink, and other wear and tear on the ring. Do most people wear their rings this way? We were thinking about getting a nice wedding ring such as an sapphire/diamond eternity ring for everyday wear.
About the actual sapphires, we both drool regularly at the sapphires posted to cherrypicked. We''re looking for a cushion cut sapphire. She has small fingers, with a ring size less than 5, although we still haven''t determined around what mm x mm would work well yet.
The only current cushion on CP is the following:
http://www.cherrypicked.com/Gallery/Score.aspx?ItemID=1893
is the shallow depth due to the stone being a bit darker?
However I really like the intensity of the blues of the Ceylon sapphires, eg:
http://www.cherrypicked.com/Gallery/Score.aspx?ItemID=1673
But I don''t really understand the difference between the 2, especially given that the 1st one has a higher rarity rating, and both have the same pedigree (I assume that''s due to the certificates?). How much of a premium is associated with a Celyon sapphire? Does it make that much of a difference? It''s just that all the sapphires that have a vivid, intense blue are listed as Ceylon.
And what are the difference with those sapphires compared to these at The Natural Sapphire? Is it the cut? the faceting? Or is it the color, sparkle and something you have to see in person?
Item ID: B881, B880, B761, B735
We''re thinking about mounting the stone solitaire style, on mounts similar to those on
www.antiqueengagementrings.com or just something with scrollwork similar to the rings on www.renaissanceplatinum.com
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

I''m in the process of building an ering for the love of my life
I''ve read just about every old thread on here about sapphires and rings but am always surprised by hot few hits always turn up related to sapphires and rings.
Anyway, we both like sapphires and have been admiring the sapphires that are listed on cherrypicked for the past few years or so. But it seems that despite all my research I still have many questions I was hoping some of you could help me out with.
She''s afraid that the durability of a sapphire doesn''t compare to a diamond and will not wear well. One of her friends wanted to get a emerald cut sapphire for her ring, but was told by the jewelry store that the cut has a great risk of chipping and persuaded her friend to get an oval shape instead.
Another friend of hers bought a sapphire ring at an antiques shop only to have it scratched up, I believe it was the table most probably. She brought it back in for them to repolish it which they did but told her that because it was a sapphire it would no doubt happen again and be easily scratched up. She upgraded her ring to an antique diamond ring instead at the shop. So my gf has a perception that sapphires are easily scratched by everyday wear, is that the case? I personally think it''s just the shops looking to make a larger profit as I''ve never been to impressed by the knowledge of most jewelry store salespersons.
I''ve also told her that sapphires are the second hardest natural mineral after diamonds, and although diamonds are 4 times harder, the ones that are between 9 and 10 on moh''s scale are manmade diamond simulants. While sapphires may scratch, don''t diamonds chip more easily due to their perfect cleavage?
We both really like sapphires, but it''s mostly just a durability issue. She''d also like to never have to take her ring off although I worry that that seems like an unneccesary risk - ie. stone pops out in the shower, washes down the sink, and other wear and tear on the ring. Do most people wear their rings this way? We were thinking about getting a nice wedding ring such as an sapphire/diamond eternity ring for everyday wear.
About the actual sapphires, we both drool regularly at the sapphires posted to cherrypicked. We''re looking for a cushion cut sapphire. She has small fingers, with a ring size less than 5, although we still haven''t determined around what mm x mm would work well yet.
The only current cushion on CP is the following:
http://www.cherrypicked.com/Gallery/Score.aspx?ItemID=1893
is the shallow depth due to the stone being a bit darker?

However I really like the intensity of the blues of the Ceylon sapphires, eg:
http://www.cherrypicked.com/Gallery/Score.aspx?ItemID=1673

But I don''t really understand the difference between the 2, especially given that the 1st one has a higher rarity rating, and both have the same pedigree (I assume that''s due to the certificates?). How much of a premium is associated with a Celyon sapphire? Does it make that much of a difference? It''s just that all the sapphires that have a vivid, intense blue are listed as Ceylon.
And what are the difference with those sapphires compared to these at The Natural Sapphire? Is it the cut? the faceting? Or is it the color, sparkle and something you have to see in person?
Item ID: B881, B880, B761, B735




We''re thinking about mounting the stone solitaire style, on mounts similar to those on
www.antiqueengagementrings.com or just something with scrollwork similar to the rings on www.renaissanceplatinum.com
Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
