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Thanks @eapj , @stracci2000 it's not for everyone but my motto is, "if you love it, you'll find a place for it." I love lots of things! I have been a collector all my life. I'm a hoarder of fine things!
@Daisys and Diamonds wouldn't that be fun!
Wow, I just asked my DH and he said he loves this room. Go figure. LOL who is this man I married? Though he did say he likes that rug and the room needs it for sound absorption.
He said the light is what makes this room. It's open and like being outside and that is what resonates with him. And me too. And I love the wide open spaces and zero clutter in this room.
I learned something new about my DH today. I think my style is rubbing off on him. Just like my sense of humor has too. Nice going (on my part)![]()
My goal would be a completely clear kitchen worktop with absolutely nothing on it - no toaster, kettle, just emptiness. Ahhh. That's not going to happen with a slightly-hoardy husband and kids sadly...
I am a total minimalist and 100% agree with your OP. I love really empty rooms. I find them restful. Clutter and too many possessions drains me.
I find it very freeing to get rid of things and have just a few well-chosen possessions. I enjoy decluttering so much that I have nothing left to declutter!
I have a particular thing for being able to clean under things, so like furniture on legs, bed frames rather than divan beds, that sort of thing.
I adore Marie Kondo and love her tip for dealing with sentimental things that you don't really want to keep but feel bad getting rid of (take a photo and get rid of the item). Genius. Also the idea of sunk costs and the money already being wasted. And the concept of paying to use your house as a storage unit by keeping items that you don't find enjoyable or useful.
My goal would be a completely clear kitchen worktop with absolutely nothing on it - no toaster, kettle, just emptiness. Ahhh. That's not going to happen with a slightly-hoardy husband and kids sadly...
I'm somewhere in the middle. Space, room to move, but not greige. Or plain white. Or neutrals, for more than background. My office downstairs is all off white - including the ceiling and carpet - but the furniture is bright yellow and there's a bunch of artworks on the walls. Everything I have, I use and if I don't use it, out it goes.
I like a soft, welcoming feel, but not cosy as such, or cluttered. I love pastels for wall color, and decorative accents. I like things on walls - but not every inch covered. I've had houses in magazines and on TV, but - honestly - I didn't enjoy the feel of having to get dressed up, just to fit in with one's own home. So now we look for pretty, homey (homey - not 'homely'!), soft, very well maintained, clean and neat, functional, comfortable, tasteful - but not spectacular or stunningly beautiful. My home is a backdrop for the people who live here, not visa versa.
I get a LOT out of my home and love spending time here. it's restful here, and expectation-free.
Having said all of that, tho....if I don't get a pool soon, I will die.
(I'm just putting that out there on the off chance my DH reads PriceScope....)
I do want a pool too. Just one nice lap lane! But sadly I doubt it’s happening for me. I think my city yard is too small unless I remove a several hundred year cottonwood. I don’t think I could cut down the tree.
I want to BE you. I want to get rid of clutter, and really try my best to. Then I wonder, what if I need that? And then I keep way way way more than I need.
I love this style. I just broke a small English Porcelain blue/whiteSt.shire crescent plate that was on my desk for over 50 years and told myself to get over it. Then I saw your porcelain collection...oh well. Beautiful just beautiful.