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A few more considerations:
Skin breakdown. As the person loses weight, as their nutritional status declines as they stop wanting food and drink, their tissues may begin to break down. My mother's skin broke down on both heels and her sacrum.
Mental changes can occur. Mom was swearing and spitting at the caregiver and the hospice nurse (she had dementia but it worsened dramatically during her final few months. It is not easy to deal with all this even without small children around.
Location of the hospital bed. We had to put the hospital bed in Mom's living room so she could watch TV and so the caregiver could keep an eye on her, keep her company. Would your MIL be in a spare room, isolated, or in your living room / family room, where she could interact with family? How would this affect your family life? How would it be for her to be in a bedroom, alone?
IV Pain meds? Are you expecting she will need pain meds administered through IV? Could she have that in your home? (My mother didn't need them so I don't know how that would work.)
Skin breakdown. As the person loses weight, as their nutritional status declines as they stop wanting food and drink, their tissues may begin to break down. My mother's skin broke down on both heels and her sacrum.
Mental changes can occur. Mom was swearing and spitting at the caregiver and the hospice nurse (she had dementia but it worsened dramatically during her final few months. It is not easy to deal with all this even without small children around.
Location of the hospital bed. We had to put the hospital bed in Mom's living room so she could watch TV and so the caregiver could keep an eye on her, keep her company. Would your MIL be in a spare room, isolated, or in your living room / family room, where she could interact with family? How would this affect your family life? How would it be for her to be in a bedroom, alone?
IV Pain meds? Are you expecting she will need pain meds administered through IV? Could she have that in your home? (My mother didn't need them so I don't know how that would work.)