Hi Fellow LIW!
I need to enlist your help, in helping me find articles or support that say shopping for a ERing together is ok! My bf has already told me that he''s proposing this year, but he''s the stereotypical male who walks in, sees what he wants and walks out. No extra throught put into the 4c''s or if he''s getting a good deal. (afraid of this, I scoured goodoldgold.com and learned everything I could, and linked him to resources). And from what I can tell diamonds aren''t a quick walk-in & walk-out type of purchase.
I''m a practical girl, and I''d rather we "window" shop together (I''ve never tried any rings on, so I don''t even know what I like). Then pick out a few we BOTH like and then he can make the final decision when he''s ready. He''d rather take another girl, which I''m not comfortable with, since it will be the ring I wear for a lifetime.
He said he would take me with him if I could provide support/documentation, that it is acceptable now for couples to go together. He thinks it would take the surprise element out of it, but can''t he still surprise me by how he proposes and when? I have complete faith that he will pick something I love, or I''ll love anything he picks, BUT I don''t want him to get ripped off by jewelers...
So if you have any helpful links that would be fantastic! Thanks!
PS. For xmas he got me a diamond solitaire pendant which I love, but he went to a MALL and visited the B&M''s in there... that''s almost guaranteed rip off. My pendant is fantastic, and I love it, but I don''t want him to be paying for more than necessary.... is this selfish?
I need to enlist your help, in helping me find articles or support that say shopping for a ERing together is ok! My bf has already told me that he''s proposing this year, but he''s the stereotypical male who walks in, sees what he wants and walks out. No extra throught put into the 4c''s or if he''s getting a good deal. (afraid of this, I scoured goodoldgold.com and learned everything I could, and linked him to resources). And from what I can tell diamonds aren''t a quick walk-in & walk-out type of purchase.
I''m a practical girl, and I''d rather we "window" shop together (I''ve never tried any rings on, so I don''t even know what I like). Then pick out a few we BOTH like and then he can make the final decision when he''s ready. He''d rather take another girl, which I''m not comfortable with, since it will be the ring I wear for a lifetime.
He said he would take me with him if I could provide support/documentation, that it is acceptable now for couples to go together. He thinks it would take the surprise element out of it, but can''t he still surprise me by how he proposes and when? I have complete faith that he will pick something I love, or I''ll love anything he picks, BUT I don''t want him to get ripped off by jewelers...
So if you have any helpful links that would be fantastic! Thanks!
PS. For xmas he got me a diamond solitaire pendant which I love, but he went to a MALL and visited the B&M''s in there... that''s almost guaranteed rip off. My pendant is fantastic, and I love it, but I don''t want him to be paying for more than necessary.... is this selfish?