DivaDiamond007
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That was my initial thought too. Can you explain to them that you''re just so busy and won''t have time to make them comfortable so it would be best for them if they stayed somewhere other than in your home?Date: 3/23/2010 1:15:47 AM
Author: movie zombie
ok, they''re coming to visit and not an easy way out of it....but you almost divorced 6 years ago due to the interactions and you''re still bitter about it...i would be, too, i''m sure.
so, how about putting them up in a hotel/motel/bed and breakfast nearby? limit their time in your home, give you some space, etc. then when your hubby is around, he can entertain them.
lock your bills up in a closet or safe or something. shut doors behind you and lock them if necessary?
mz
My feeling is that if they cause that much stress in your marriage, and your DH knows it, then there is no reason why you should be forced in allowing them to stay in your home when he won''t even be around to wrangle them....and when he doesn''t follow the Indian cultural practices to begin with.
I am not Indian, and neither is my DH''s family, but I''m guessing that putting them up in a hotel won''t go over well with the IL''s but I think this is a time when you need to put your marriage and family first.